"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Someone Much cooler

Senior Don Juan
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Well about a yr later i am back, to report my progress:

How to achieve happiness on a day to day basis
I.Stabilize life
A.Find/Keep reliable job-I managed to aquire and secure a job, im treated poorly but i have been here for more than a yr.
B.Acquire all my transcripts & stay @ on College I transfered to a private 4yr college back in PA
C.Get my own humble apartment where I know I can stay peacefully I have aquired my own place, clean and safe, after going thru more drame with my ex gf
D.Maintain Reliable transportation to & from work.(have back up) I have gotten my license back and havent had an infraction in a yr or more, I now have 3 cars(poor condition) but hey its transportation

II.Enjoy life kinda feeling down since im an outsider, still
A.Have interesting leisurely life
B.Spend time doing things I enjoy w/ others (car clubs, cruises, boxing, chess, +shows)
C.Spend time doing things I enjoy alone (day trips to new places/cities, foods, racing)
D.Reward myself w/small treats(desserts +foods that please me)

III.Improve Relationship with god Never really got into my religion
A.Go to masque on jumuah
B.Make salat
C.Cut back sins I can help(cursing, negativity, clubbing, drinking)
D.Gain more Muslim peers & people who can contribute to my life in a positive way
E.Read the holy Quran
F.Visit Mecca once

IV.Successful relationship I have been lacking in this area, im getting laid but by hb8 18, 19, 20, 21 & 23 yr olds-nothing my age(27)
A.Avoid females who are attention slores/time wasters
B.Avoid female friends who are fitnah/xena(trouble)
C.Respect the woman I’m with like id want her to do me
D.Give her myself completely 100%
E.Be understanding, supportive & compromise with her.

V.Secure better health
A.Keep inner peace by avoiding bad karma +negative ppl
B.Build an exercise schedule that I can keep & will produce results
C.Build a better sleep schedule
D.4 balanced meals a day
E.Vitamins

VI.Increase Productivity
A.Block out more time 4 studying
B.Try and invest in myself & not spend pointlessly
C.Work hard for my Entertainment company
D.Save money.
E.Stay out of trouble and make better choices
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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