"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Help clean my stupid mess

afc_recovering

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Alright so you're about to hear about one of the stupidest and mindboggling things that I've done in my life:


Before I found sosuave for some reason?, I told a friend that I did stuff with my oneitis, which I didn't because we were in the friend zone. Well I'm out of the friend zone and I know shes into me when this stupid thing resurfaces (about 8 months later). I need to know what I should do... I don't think admitting it would be good because it makes me look like an idiotic pervert (which apparently I was) Should I do a ****y-funny line like, "No I didn't say that... I said I nailed you ;)" Or should I go with the "I was drunk" (I think I was drinking). So avoid the situation? Thanks

The pure situation is so stupid but it could cost me my entire rep that I have worked so hard to improve. So please help me mop up the stupid mess I made.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BassBuddha

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In my experience, if you've known a chick for more than 8 months you'll say plenty of dumb ****, and if they're really into you you can just say "sorry, but that's how I roll" and all will be forgiven. That being said, it's a bad idea to go with somebody you were in the friends zone with anyway.
 

Buck Rogers

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tell the truth, no way out of this one, just tell her you lied and when asked why, say something corny like "becuase i wanted it to be true" be warned after using that sleaze ball line you will be treading on extermely thin ice and will have to make sure u dont **** up.

do that and youll be yesterdays news, on the other hand perhaps you should just avoid it and wait for it to go away.

OH yea, just remember next time, if your gunna tell white lies make sure you cover your tracks.
 
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