"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ChenCristos

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I just recently broke up with the ex and have been out dating new girls
this new girl- we've been on a couple of dates
and heres whats crackin so far
conversation and chemistry I'd say is fair-
we made out at the end of our date today but she wouldnt let me go further plus the conversation was kinda lacking
its hard to get a decent conversation with her and it seems rocky basically conversation wise I just cant really analyze this too well
can anyone help?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MidnightResistance

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Give it another go and keep asking her questions.
Sounds like you're doing ok so far for a first date.
 
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This girl sounds like she's still acting reserved with you or she's just shy. Try going on an action date which you know she has an interest in. If she plays certain sports, join her or ask her to teach you how to play. If she likes the movies, catch a flick together or talk about films with her. People would tend to lose their inhibitions when they're talking about or doing something they have an interest in.
 
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