"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hello from Rotterdam !

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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RobertJIngle said:
Hi!
this is my first post here.
You are lucky to be living in such a great country. I visit quite often. Was there last month. Ahhh, nothing like the kamer girls of the Red-Light District.:D Anyone who doesn't experience it once in their life, doesn't know what they're missing. I'll be back in early January.
 

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edger said:
Ahhh, nothing like the kamer girls of the Red-Light District.:D Anyone who doesn't experience it once in their life, doesn't know what they're missing.
Wait wat? I live around the corner of the red light district(I basically live adjacent to the Dam Square), and while I like going there for a stroll to watch people and the pretty girls, I would never dip my **** into one of those girls. Why on earth would you pay for sex when you can get it for free? Besides, I don't think I'd feel comfortable around a girl with such a high chance of having an STD...
 
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