"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hellllp Meee Possible Oneitis

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matygee

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Why does this always happen to me? What the hell can I do about it? It seems oneitis is on the horizon. I seem to think about this girl all the time and I try very hard to keep myself busy in attempt not to think about her. I do have a life and I even sometimes smoke weed to get my mind off her but it still dosent work. I feel as if i have to force myself not to talk to her because i dont wanna fall in the AFC trap. i also still daily pursue other girls so i know not to fall into the trap. now this girl already told me she likes me and told me she wants me to be her boyfriend. i dont wanna have it like i did before when i told the girl i liked her and she liked me but it died out after i told her. i want too keep this girl interested...and i wont see her for about 3 weeks. Should I avoid ALL contact with her prior to meeting up with her? i dont know what to do guys this is REALLY ****ing with my head.

this girl even says I know u love me jokingly where i reply NOPE u love me but really whats going on in my head is that I THINK ABOUT HER ALL THE TIME!!1
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Deadly_Ripped

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Yar, I couldn't get this one girl out of my head... in fact she's still there. It took 3 weeks of not talking to her AT ALL before i stopped thinking about her every day, and as soon as we started hanging out again she set up shop in my head again. I haven't found anyone who can find a truly effective way to eliminate oneitis, and the only cure for me was backing off for a few weeks to clear my own head. As far as that goes, it worked and now I've still got it for her, but it's not nearly as bad.
 
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DJ Tips is for giving tips, not asking for them. Please read the forum descriptions in the future, thanks.

Moved to DJD.
 
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