"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what's the deal with those REALLY REALLY REALLY short midgit chicks having 6' 5" boyfriends....... I could never understand that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Aside from those women that are only and literally looking for tall, dark, and handsome ... being short is a disadvantage only in the sense that it affects YOU.

It's only when you feel - and therefore act - like less of a man because of your height that women are turned off by it.

I'm 5'6" and even after 21 years I still expect to be taller and bigger than the women around me ... which is almost never the case.

It fvcks with your ego, your conditioning that you have to be some bodybuilder/model to make it with women ... which is obviously untrue.
 
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