height & build?

[confident afc]

Sup guys...


I'm pretty solid mentally but its just one thing that seems to be holding me back and that is that I dont think most of the women (that I want to go after...mature women if you will) would even consider looking at me...to thme I probably look like a little kid..it really bothers me... I just turned 18 and I have been told that I look mature (in the face) but im only about 5'7 and about 90% of the time I see a girl I would approach shes always a little taller and alot bigger than me....so my question is - how do I over come this insecurity? Im also really skinny...

 

[Nino-Tk]

Look man I'm 16 and I'm also very skinny about 170 cm height,It doesnt't have to bother you brother because YOU are the one who is setting these boundries for yourself in your Mind,and I once heard that if you control your mind you control your destiny...embrace the things you cannot change because insecurity is a ugly thing and women hate it...It all starts in the mind..confidence and insecurity...

 

[colombiandude]

Thats right, it really shouldnt bother you, but its never bad to have a good body or a six pack. Based on what ive heard, girls melt when they see a six pack. Ive heard this first hand. lol. and just start out small. a few push ups every day and theyll elevate to more.

 

[phatboi408]

Im 5'5" and 19. Doesnt hold me back one bit. Just have attractive skillsets. A good tool is Magic Bullets and they describe what attributes you should have. and check out www.the21convention.com

 

[Davezz]

haha confident afc and u post this thread

 

[redline420]

Do yourself a favor and exercise for your own good. Being in good health and having some functional strength can only help you with other things in life as well as women. Secondly you need to solidify your core confidence. Your height and weight dosent matter. Is it a cruch, will it make it easier to meet women? No. No it wont. Trust me. Being "cute" and tall and whatever dosent matter like you think it does. Infact being attractive just puts more expectation on you to be running a higher level of game and to have higher level of confidence etc. Be comfortable in your own body, then maybe you can be comfortable in someone elses .

 

[koolness]

lean muscle = more attention from females
I'm speaking from experience. So start pumping iron to compensate for your lack of height. i'm a 5'11 175 lb. athlete/jock

 

[BigJimbo]

Height is huge. I am 6'4". I was once very thin and still girls loved being around me. They didn't care if I was skinny and lanky. The height alone seemed to make them feel secure. I got a lot of **** from little guys though. Always trying to show me up for no reason.

Fast forward to now. I am 6'4" and built. Like a brick ****house. Not fat and not bulky. Just God given muscular development. I do a few pushups a day and that is all it takes. Do girls seem to love the added power and strength? Not really. They seem to first notice the height. The muscles are mentioned at a very later time if at all. Kind of a let down to be honest.

So, I would have to say that height is the key. Kinda like being born into massive wealth. Things are just easier for us tall fellows.

 

[Plec07]

5"6 here, quite built but too lazy to define my muscles. I don't let it stop me, neither should you.

I have seen guys with fat rolls I could hide a coke can in pick up hotties from pure game.

Attractiveness opens doors, but they can easily be shut without good game.

Guys with the better game, are like proffessional lockpickers. No door can hold them back.

 

[novaknight]

I'm tall (6'2 ish) and pretty skinny (Though i'm working on it). I'm not even 16.
Oddly enough the bit of female attention I had was from people older than me.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

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