heavy oneitis w/ gf?

[mrsoy]

yeeahh..ive got a gf (almost 2 months) and i think im becoming a little too interested. it just seems im liking her too much when i shouldnt. how could i go about getting over it without being a bad bf leading her to dump me?

also,how can i find out if she still wants to be with me?she either doesnt show emotion and feelings well/hides it OR she doesnt like me. theres no way shes in it for the money cause im broke and i dont think there are any reasons for her not to like me..i was thinking about lightly flirting with some girls at the super bowl party im going to with my gf sunday.......

yeeahh,im not good at writing out situations so let me know if i stopped making sense somewhere..

 

[downfallofdisbelief]

yea, i was in the same boat w/ my g/f (3 months now) but i talked it over with her and it turns out she actually DOES care about me and the realtionship. She was just going through some bad times and wasn't able to show it. Your G/f COULD have a similar problem. Dont fret over it. DONT FLIRT W/ THE CHICKS AT THE PARTY WHILE YOUR W/ YOUR G/F!!!! It'll just piss her off and make you think your immature about problems in your relationship. Be a man about it. Youve got 2 months under your belt, dont waste them. And as for the one-itis, dont worry about it, its all a part of the cycle of relationships. Just have fun, after all, isn't that what bein a DJ is all about?

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

Exactly.

Trust me, girls will notice if you care about them. We see it as being clingy or "Oneinitis" but most DECENT girls actually see it as you not being afraid to show that you care. Don't waste those 2 months and do not flirt with other girls at the party ... that's not the DJ way of doing things. If you care about her, nothing wrong in experiencing those feelings.

 

[downfallofdisbelief]

dood, thats such a rad user name (a lil off topic i know)

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

Thanks.

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