“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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on energy. The energy you put out is felt by everyone, men, women, children. The stale conversation is not as bad as the energy that it emits. A man who is not assured and driven to action and purpose with a woman can be sniffed out a mile away.. and that scares women.. It's the equivelant of a woman with no facial expression and weird vibes staring at you from 1 foot away without saying anything.. her face as if all the energy sucked out of it.

Anxious energy, nervous energy can be cute to some women, if you're a very attractive male. But for most guys, it scares girls.. it tells them something is wrong or that your intention is weird or that you lack self esteem.

COnfidence is literally everything.. A man with alot of confidence and drive can be sniffed a mile away.. It's why women gravitate to the guy whos the life of the party.. even if hes a skinny nerd with glasses or a fat asian dude with little sexual value.

Guys who have issues with women, one of the first things I try to tell them is think about what energy they're giving off in interactions.. After some time of understanding this concept, they start faking a different energy.. and boom, **** starts to click. I did the same thing when I was young, and in fact most males do..when they want to impress or seduce a woman.. We fake an energy, we fake being more mature/more manly/more cool than we are.. We fake being more sexually capable, etc. Some even fake being more financially stable than they are. I've known several guys who did this.

Start changing your energy and see your game change.. Sex with beautiful women is one of the best things in life.. But, after some time, you can genunielly start enjoying the company of women, moreso than men at times.. as long as you have your close brothers/family aka men who feel more like family than friends.. I don't recommend faking the energy completely but only to start making the shift.. After a couple of good relationships / casually dating multiple women, your natural confidence will go up and things will start taking effect anyway.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Life’s a journey. Daily habits grow confidence and self assurance. Exposing ourselves to uncomfortable scenarios on purpose and overcoming them. Learning new skills. Looking at difficulties as opportunities. Logging and journaling daily micro wins.

Focus on self, the rest will follow.
 
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