Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Celadus

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I read somewhere that working out while listening to headphones damages your hearing. Has anyone heard this?

I think I could lift more and lift longer with some music I like.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bman

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why would it damage your hearing? i dont do it because i dont want a walkman getting in my way.
 

madgame

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Man your hear a lotta myths concerning bodybuilding/ weight lifting these days. Never heared this one but Im sure its one of them. Think about it...why would it damage your hearing just because ure performing and exercise and not when u use it sitting on the bus.
 

Reto

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If you crank it up, yeah you're gonna damage your hearing.

I get to work at 7:00am. I wear my head phones all day, then at the gym at night. Total about 9 hours a day.

I have no hearing problems...
 
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