"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hb's friend likes me..help here.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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I work with this one chick who I talk to kinda often. Like a month and 1/2 ago. Her hb friend who works a few buildings down came in and I said hi. I didnt really think much of it. Then hb friend came by a few weeks later, and I talked to her for a few mins, showed her what I do,etc. I thought that I'd just make friends with my coworker so I could get closer to her hb friend. The reverse seemed to happen. The coworker whom I dont find attractive now likes me. I can see her literally melting and just dieing to hang around me like never before. I havent seen the hb friend in a while either.

What do i do here? I just wanna be friends with the coworker. Her friend is smokin hot, I'd like to get with her. What must I do?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The decent thing to do is to man up and tell "coworker" that you are not attracted to her. Do not apologise. It is not your fault that "coworker" is attracted to you but don't make her feel like a leper either. Do not mention hb friend to coworker because it aint any of her business.

Then if anybody has any problems with you and "hb firend" it is their problem and not yours, this includes "coworker".
 
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