"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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HB9 tells me she doesnt know how to 'show love'...

gimmeyofonenumba

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I've been dating this chick for a few months now. She mentioned the other day that she doesnt know how to show love/affection very well, and failed to do so in her past relationships. We've had sex, and we're usually do pda when out at a movie or cuddle on the couch, things like that. But she told me that recently, and I know she's trying to tell me something, like she wants me to take the lead in asking for an exclusive relationship? what do you guys think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tiguere

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Looks like you have a prude on your hands.

You got to bring her freak out. Oral sex from you to her.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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no she isnt, she is by no means a prude, she is very exp. in bed, just not in relationships
 
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