"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HB7.3 seems busy but interested

pyros

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Hi. I met this HB7.3 on Saturday night, at a dancing event. I asked her for a dance, we danced a couple of songs, we chatted for a while, she seemed receptive and friendly. Besides, she said several times that she had seen me some other nights at the same club. When the conversation kind of declined, she stareted it again, always smiled and looked directly in my eyes, etc. In the end I took her number after talking for around 15-20 minutes.

Next day I added her on FB cause I wanted to see some more pics of her before asking her out. I liked what I saw. Then she texted, and we texted back and forth for a while, just talking about silly stuff and doing some jokes.

At night she texted me again to ask me if I was gonna be at X dancing club, to which I replied that I could not, but I wished her a good time.

Since the 'iron seemed hot', today I texted her asking how she was doing and suggesting to go to grab a drink some day this week.
She replied that this week she's busy cause she's going on a business trip, and asked me if I am gonna be a Y club on Sunday, to which I replied that I do not think so because I have other plans already.


So she seems interested but declined my offer to meet this week cause she's leaving the city because of her work, but she's free on Sunday and would like to meet at Y club but with her friends, my friends etc.

Suggestions, opinions?
Im thinking that Im just not gonna initiate anything else and see if she suggests to meet, cause really, Im not gonna change my agenda to go to Y club next Sunday just because she's gonna be there. I mean, if I had nothing else to do why not? or if I was already planing to go there, but...


Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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