"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HB 9.5 PROBLEM. Need tips

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damn, yesterday night i was in club lot of chicks there, but as i am used too, i approached some of them to make my mood, and then just the extremely hot ones.

ok some friends of mine came, and they sat at the table with this chick (HB9.5, blond, curly hair, brown eyes big tits, dressed in a pink suit and white pants awwwwww) ok .. they were about 5 (only chicks) in their grup. I started to analyze her, look at her bl, what she is doing, she seemed bored, i then wen`t to my friend, and i was sitting next to this chick, and sometimes we looked each in others eyes :))

ok.. then i get bored, and i say wtf i must get social p. and i go to dance i go in a cage, the highest place in the club, EVERYONE was looking at me, so the HB. i was dancing, my smile allways on my face, she started to look more and more at me i was smilling to her, and then i took my tongue out at her :) guess what she got angry (hmm...wtf? i thought so, i thincked then she is a hard target, and for 9.5 i should make some neghits) i dance and i dance, 2 chicks came near me and started to dance with me, putting their hands on my ass stuff like this, HB9.5 was looking. then i get down, the 2 chicks in the cage got nervous cuz i left :) and i went to chick "Hello, Alex" she told me her name after this, talked a liitle about how i dance, and then was tiem for neghit, when i spoke with her, her hair was allways bothering me, so i asked her if she want`s to cut her hair so we can speak easyer, she told ARE U CRAZY? Me: Does ur beauty stay in the hair? No..
She: (Didn`t answer moved her head in other direction)

This i don`t understand, then i tryied to repair the situation, fluff talk some more, i wanted to make her attracted to me, so i wanted to make her the cube game, She didn`t want :( then i asked her some more neghits, she got angry and didn`t speak with me the whole night. WHY ? THIS IS WHAT I WAN`T TO KNOW :)



i need some fast tips on what to do with her, tonight i am seeing her again. + i have to make her speak with me again.

(i asked my friend what she told him about me... : He is a good dancer i liked him, but he is a jerk, and i don`t like jerks)

for me sound good this, i was CF but didn`t worked ANYTHING on her. She want`s a ****in.g religious guy or what?

PS: She doesn`t have a boyfriend from long time, she is approached by 3 guys/minute she rejects all of them
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You were a jerk because you used too many neghits. Neghits should not be a normal part of your game unless the girl is stuck up and puts herself on a pedestal.

Otherwise, you need to be CF, which it doesn't sound like you are. Neghits are NOT CF.
 

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i made only one neg hit, not more... and believe me neghits aren`t a part of my game, but this was the hotest chick i ever seen in a club, so i applied mystery ... that says +9 chicks--> neg hit


and i have my own theory about CF, i prefer more Funny. of course not like a clown. but many times i made a chick laugh and laugh and laugh and had the same effect.
 

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f u c k her :) i didn`t saw her anymore, and there are hundreds of other womans :) so wtf ...


tactic :)

and i have my own theory about CF, i prefer more Funny
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if i will say that CF is ****, the whole forum will jump in my head, i see that everyone here likes Cf, so it`s me against the forum :) i don`t wan`t this :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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