"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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there is an hb 10 who is kind of friends with some of my friends, anyway she was sitting near us at college in the cafeteria on friday and all my male friends were saying how hot she was and wouldnt go and talk to her. i thought f*ck it and just did it, i thought about all the stuff ive read and i just thought what the hell?

there is only one way to find out if you have a chance and thats to go talk to them. you can talk to your friends as much as you want saying o do you think she likes me? and doing that you can waste half your life. OR you can grab your balls walk over to them and BE A MAN.

i did it and it worked, i talked to her we got on really well i made her laugh and she seemed good fun, plus shes an hb 10. DAMN fine!

i saw her later walking in a corridor and said hi, and she stopped ME to say hello and ask how i was. now that was a surprise!

i dont know if anything will happen, but im going to ask for her number tomorrow and see if she wants to come swimming with me (theres a pool next door to the college).

i didnt do everything right, i mean i told her my name without her asking, when i introduced myself but i didnt tell her alot about me, and a lot of people told me she kept looking at me after we spoke (i thought i had imagined it, i mean shes sooooo hot!) anyway i better shut up cos im sounding like an afc again...

but all im saying guys is go for it, whats it matter if they turn you down? its their loss, and if your friends see you go talk to girls they will respect you more and the other girls will wonder why you didnt talk to them.

so if you get turned down it can still be good, just forget it and move on girls arent everything after all and once you realise that and really believe it it will become so much easier to approach girls.

im beginning to see the light and its already helping me, make a conscious decision. say it out loud, hold your head high and go talk to them.

CARPE DIEM!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No such thing as an HB10.
 

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Yeah, Good Job

But Obviously there has to be SOMETHING wrong with her...

Her big toe is shorter than the toe next to it?
Unsymetrical Face?
Split Ends?
Roots Need To Be Redone?
Is She A Good Cook?
Will She Subscribe to Playboy and other dirty mags for you?
Will she go out and have a 3 way with her hottest friend an you?
Does her Sh*t smell?


:D Obviously you need to take this girl off the pedistal in your mind before you f*ck up, remember to tease her a little.

But yeah, good Job on everything man!
 

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i'll revise it then hb 9.5? lol.

i know about the whole pedestal thing, i gotta keep a check on myself. and oh yea, neg-hits work wonders as do the matrix reloadeds revised neg hits!
 
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Good job man!

I approached some chick the other day after school as she was waiting on her ride. I approached the girl(about an 8) and she talked but had her arms crossed, made no eye contact, and barely moved. I talked to her a little and then ****ing left.

And this was the first time a chick wasn't receptive to me when I approached, so I was sort of stunned but then I actually got a boost and sigh of relief because I didn't wimp out and not approach, and am glad to have experienced such emotionlessness out of a girl you approach. Maybe she was having a bad day, because earlier this year I remember stopping her in the hallway and complimenting her necklace and she was nice and receptive...i dunno.

awesome that you showed your buds, that you are indeed a man, and not can and will do what he desires.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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In my sense there are HB10s out there. I only rate girls on first glance (strictly looks), and if she fits in my top tear, then she's a 10. However once the conversation starts, all bets are off.
 

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Yo dude you should have gotten her number right off the bat instead of ***** footing around, now it will be a little awkward asking for her # 3 days later. Im sure you can still work with it.
 

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saw her today, talked to her. did some kino and flirted, shes coming to a party im organising (fancy dress) and wants to go as a french maid and wants me to help her get her costume!

i also got her number and email address...
 

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o yea... she kinoed me! stroked my arm, then looked right into my eyes, i smiled and she smiled back... but now im getting over analytical....
 

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Awesome Job! Sounds like she already set up the first date, take her French Maid costume shopping and then take her to dinner if you are good with conversation... or an action date if you feel you need to raise her interest level a little more.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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im good at talking etc, problem is lack of money at the moment! so i;ll take her shopping (get her to model for me *drool*) and then take it from there, might invite her back to wathc a video...
 

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date is set up for tomorrow night, looks to be just going to the cinema im afraid... saw her quite alot today, she made a point of sitting with me, very flirty very touchy and was txting me when i wasnt with her saying she was missing me.

what the hell is going on? things like this dont normally happen to me!

oh yea, another hot hot friend of mine (hb 9) told me she kinda likes me yesterday and today dumped her boyfriend. and we;re going swimming tomorrow afternoon. so i seem to have a couple of HOT options...


and yea... theres this other hb9 who's been looking at me and smiling etc, maybe i should go talk to her!
 
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