Is it alright to try and have sex with someone who is Christian? I go to Christian organization meetings and I believe so of the girls there are attracted to me. Like someone I never meet approached me twice, and then tried to set up a time to see her, saying that she'd love to see me. Also some girl I meet later started touching me a lot maybe 15 times in one evening. She said she thinks I am an awesome guy.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Having sex with a Christian Girl.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Alphathree
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You'll waste your time and get Jesus-bombed, trust me.
God damned religious organizations seriously decrease p_ussy output.
God damned religious organizations seriously decrease p_ussy output.
WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
Christian girls are hard to categorize. I know some that are into normal stuff and practice Christianity as more of a spiritual thing, but then there are the hardcores who have more weird baggage and hangups than any other group of chicks I've met in my life. If you want to bang one and she's cool, go for it. If you have to sort through her issues, it's not worth it. Trust me...hardcore Christian girls are nuts.
Sophomakhos
Don Juan
Let's look at this from a purely theological point of view. I say, if you want to, and they seem to be up for it, have a crack at them. Here's my reasoning:
1. There are some quite liberal Christians who don't consider sex before marriage to be a sin (though I'll grant that this is rare, especially in America).
2. If it's entirely consensual (make sure that it is), then you can't be accused of putting her soul in jeopardy. If she's prepared to have sex with you, then she's already condemned her own spirit (if that's what she believes)!
3. If she is a good Christian who always sticks to her beliefs of what is moral, then she won't agree to have sex with you.
In short, consensual sex lays none of the blame at your feet. You can hardly be accused of leading a girl astray - the only girls who are led astray are the ones that want to be led astray. Hence: go for it, and see what you can get.
However, this argument only works on the philosophical level. However true you or I might believe it to be, her parents/religious leader/whoever might not quite grasp it, and repercussions may arise! Make sure you've got a good get away plan, if you see what I mean.
1. There are some quite liberal Christians who don't consider sex before marriage to be a sin (though I'll grant that this is rare, especially in America).
2. If it's entirely consensual (make sure that it is), then you can't be accused of putting her soul in jeopardy. If she's prepared to have sex with you, then she's already condemned her own spirit (if that's what she believes)!
3. If she is a good Christian who always sticks to her beliefs of what is moral, then she won't agree to have sex with you.
In short, consensual sex lays none of the blame at your feet. You can hardly be accused of leading a girl astray - the only girls who are led astray are the ones that want to be led astray. Hence: go for it, and see what you can get.
However, this argument only works on the philosophical level. However true you or I might believe it to be, her parents/religious leader/whoever might not quite grasp it, and repercussions may arise! Make sure you've got a good get away plan, if you see what I mean.
diplomatic_lies
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If you're just looking for nookie, I used to tell the girls I felt a deep connection to them, implying that God was guiding my hand (and d!ck).
Yeah it was manipulative and conniving, but in my defence, I was young. Besides, since its consensual, its the girl who is responsible for her own actions.
Yeah it was manipulative and conniving, but in my defence, I was young. Besides, since its consensual, its the girl who is responsible for her own actions.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Yeh but.. Heres the bad side of it.. They will never treat you the same after you have sex with them. They will not talk to your as much they will almost hate you. Because they are going to be ashamed of this. Because they have did something that is strictly againts there religion.
diplomatic_lies
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On the bright side you get the ego boost of being a bigger stud than God.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Jesus-bombed...
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:crackup: :crackup:Sophomakhos
Don Juan
You could go in for Rasputin's line of Orthodox Christianity - he was from a Siberian sect that believed that because it is more important to God to have a really bad sinner repent than a minor one, a man should commit as many sins as possible before one massive repentance session. Thus he, although a dirty unwashed Siberian monk, was able to bed practically every woman in the Muscovite aristocracy, probably including the Tsarina herself. Rasputin must have had immense sexual magnetism, when you think about it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
seanchai
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ahahah, thanks ^^:crackup: :crackup: