"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Having multiple plates, multiple numbers...sooo important.

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Just had a date for Saturday, planned since Monday, cancel on me this evening. This is THE 2nd time she's canceled on me in a month's time. The first time was due to financial trouble she was experiencing. This time it is being sick (I'm thinking menstrual problems cause she knows I'd be expecting to fvck her). I didn't even call her or respond to her text. Alls I did was contact Another one I'd met just days ago. She is Very willing to see me on Saturday, not a date just hang out. She's new to the area (from Cali) and these seem to be the best ones of late as far as ease to hook up with - girls who've just moved here and don't have any friends. She has more tats than I generally like, but she YOUNG, and to me, at this point, that's all that matters after the 30+ yr old used up **** I banged last weekend :( I'm sorry, I can't take no more of that old sh!t. I mean, the skin on my legs and arms isn't as young (stretchier) than it used to be, but for a woman, it's much worse at my age (at least the one last week was).

While the pickins have been extremely slim in the winter months, for me at least, having just 3 or 4 extra numbers or emails are Essential to recover seamlessly from a flake. I Intend to Fvck this new early 20s girl this Saturday evening. I'm still setting it up via email with specifics in the last message about what we're gonna do. She will most likely go along with what I have in mind for Saturday. I'm 80% sure that she will confirm our plans. If she doesn't, then I'll be back at it trying to find/meet/acquire another one for a quick fix however difficult that may be as the weekend approaches. I have few backup #s/plates this time of year. I imagine by late spring/early summer I'll have an ungodly amount of prospects (warmer). The main thing is numbers, numbers, numbers, because when one flakes (for a second time even) you don't even have to respond to her as5, you can just take it ever so easily, and contact one of your others to replace the hoe. Whether the one who flaked wonders why you didn't respond etc etc. doesn't matter and I really don't care, bc hopefully she gets the message that I'm not into playing games, I'm onto the next, life's too short to be fvckin around, and I'm going to give the most cooperative one the best chance at getting fvcked by me, of entering into my circle, my stable, my cool friends. I have 60 or so close knit brothers (friends) who understand each other better than those on the outside bc of what we've been through. Those on the outside are privileged to know us personally, and get to "get in" on the benefits of our lifestyle IF they respect us and Want to be in our midst. It IS a social allure to females whether imagined or real. I think a lot of it is real, but really, we're just people, but let the hoes dream up whatever they want, all I want is pvssy., err young pvssy.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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-Hit up a girl earlier this week for a "hangout", free on weekends but has a car show to go to this weekend. Told her to let me know when she's next free.

-Hit up a girl I had a date with last Sunday, said she's not free till next week. Told her to let me know what her schedule is so we can hang out next week.

-Hit up a girl to go out on Friday, tells me she has a stomach flu. I said we should hang out next week when she's feeling better and she says "amen to that." Hmm.. Interesting response...

-Had a "hang out" planned with a girl for tomorrow, texted her to solidify a time, she tells me V-day f*cked up her work schedule and she's now no longer free until next week.

-Re-emailed a cougar I met a while ago, scheduled a date for next week.

I'm either going to be extremely busy next week... Or extremely disappointed LOL.

But yeah, sh!t happens with women. A LOT.
 

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Korrupt said:
-Hit up a girl earlier this week for a "hangout", free on weekends but has a car show to go to this weekend. Told her to let me know when she's next free.

-Hit up a girl I had a date with last Sunday, said she's not free till next week. Told her to let me know what her schedule is so we can hang out next week.

-Hit up a girl to go out on Friday, tells me she has a stomach flu. I said we should hang out next week when she's feeling better and she says "amen to that." Hmm.. Interesting response...

-Had a "hang out" planned with a girl for tomorrow, texted her to solidify a time, she tells me V-day f*cked up her work schedule and she's now no longer free until next week.

-Re-emailed a cougar I met a while ago, scheduled a date for next week.

I'm either going to be extremely busy next week... Or extremely disappointed LOL.

But yeah, sh!t happens with women. A LOT.
I hear ya, bro, and if This one ignores me or flakes (I have a hunch that she wouldn't if she agreed to Saturday (she just hasn't given me a yes or no, but if she says yes, then I have a feeling she wouldn't back out - it's just my take on her - I know the type who will jack you around. I don't mind yes or no, it's yes AND THEN no that makes me see red and say Fvck You! to any hoe that yeses and then no's my as5). This committing to something and then backing out is just the bane of bullsh!t for me that I can't deal with anymore. Any woman who does this sh!t again is gone for good, put on ignore. I'm getting pretty fvckin sick of it, it's like 30% of them do this sh!t to me, it's inhuman, Weak, no integrity POS wench.

So, if the young cali-girl one doesn't commit for Saturday, I will call a fattie I met 2 weeks ago and who didn't answer her phone last weekend. I don't hold that against her, it's only the commit and quit that I turn my wrath towards. Fvck em. All others, I give abundant chances with. The fattie is very feminine, nice hands, I'm guessing 145 lbs. (not Real fat), cute face/smile, don't know about tats yet, and YOUNG. But beyond her, not many more backups left to turn to.
 

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Definitely Poonani, go get 'em!

I'm taking a break atm because of my broken arm, the brace should come off in 3 weeks.

Also, 2 days ago, I installed an internet filter, so matter how much I WANT TO, I CAN'T LOOK AT PORN. 2 days and I can already feel the pressure building...

On paper, I have numbers for 6 girls, 1 I had met once and banged, 5 others yet to meet.

How many remain after 6 weeks because of self-imposed hiatus because of my broken arm? Possibly none, but if so, plenty more out there.

Having multiple numbers is great, since while you still deal with the flakiness, you are more likely to just go "meh" and move onto the next one.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Poonani Maker said:
I hear ya, bro, and if This one ignores me or flakes (I have a hunch that she wouldn't if she agreed to Saturday (she just hasn't given me a yes or no, but if she says yes, then I have a feeling she wouldn't back out - it's just my take on her
Well, she said it's on for tomorrow. If This one backs out, my view of women will become even more jaded, jaded like my forefathers who used to view women as merely a step up from cattle to be owned, to be possessed. Most of them are just meandering grazing animals who must be led at all times.
 
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