have you ever just suddenly woken up and...

[Jaun_Don]

realised what a complete waste of time, some constant attention seeking Woman are and that you have sadly wasted so much energy and time on them and you can't get that back?.

Thanks guys, what you said made perfect sense and just made me think, do you really like this girl J?, I mean she makes up little dramas for attention and in actual fact is a girl that talks about hard drugs too much and then I think..Thats NOT me at all and I finally woke up and know now that I don't like her and it's like a burden has been lifted off my shoulders.

So yeah thanks for the advice, I lurked for a while before I signed up.

:crackup:

 

[Ricky]

Yes I have. Many a time

I am really disgusted with women nowadays and it's hard not to give off that feeling.

I could tell some stories but why waste the time in a negative fashion.

 

[Paratrooper51]

Haha

Its funny man, as soon as I reached that point where I didn't care, stopped approaching women at bars, and just had fun with my life, I mean as SOON as that mentality kicked in, girls couldn't stay away, now my ass is married lmao. GREAT. wtf. It's good though man, you're growing

 

[The DomMega]

The majority of women are hardly worth wasting time on. What little time you do involve yourself in should have every minute counting for something. But I guess it also depends what you're all looking for. I think a lot of the stuff I read here has to do with men wanting relationships. This being the case, yeah you're going to find that the majority of time alloted to these women is a waste.

We often find ourselves on occasion wanting something concrete and solid in our relations with women. But ultimately what are we doing? We're putting the ***** on lease with the option to buy in the future, i.e. marriage. Then what? Now we have a financial bond with this person who can totally destroy our very being. I know guys who've been married over 10 years and then the wife just decides, "Oh well, it was fun, we've had two children but I want to **** other guys now." And they leave and they take a nice financial chunk of this man's livelihood with them.

My point is, if you're going to put forth effort on any one woman, make sure its in good standing. Plan 2-3 steps ahead of each situation, and see the relationship for what it is. We as men know if a woman loves us or not, although we often try to tell ourselves otherwise. We know if we're in a good situation or a bad one. Take things for what they are and move on if need be. Don't waste your time on someone who's only real goal is taking care of themselves first and you last. You'll sure go a lot further.

...and the whole "have you ever just woke up and realized you were just wasting your time" thing reminds me of an article I wrote elsewhere. Here's the link.....

http://www.pimpology.org/board/viewtopic.php?t=504