"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Have you ever cheated?

How many of you have cheated, in how many relationships?

  • Never

    Votes: 16 39.0%
  • Only in one relationship

    Votes: 13 31.7%
  • In two

    Votes: 1 2.4%
  • More than two relationships

    Votes: 11 26.8%

  • Total voters
    41

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Many years ago, I was living alone and in a long distance relationship (stupid, i know). In hindsight, I should have been more active in finding someone to spend my time who lived closer - but I was busy with work and school and wasn't finding many available single women attractive, so I kept the LDR.

One night, my neighbor invites me over. She is about a 5 or 6. She puts on slow music, lights candles, brings me wine, and sits close to me on her couch. I wanted to make out with her but the idea of me being "committed" kept me from doing so. I should have just done it, because my LDR ended up being a massive disaster and ending very badly.

Also, I regret NOT cheating on my ex-wife. I should have been plowing all sorts of random tail because she was a dumb cvnt who wasn't giving it up for me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dgwizdal

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Every single one. No regrets. In fact - it makes me appreciate the woman I am in a relationship more and feels refreshing at the end of the day.
 
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