"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Have not been here in a while. How are you guys?

lookyoung

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I have not been on the forums for a long time but just wanted to say hi to everyone. Biblebelt, Karma Sutra, LMS, Guru 1000, Rollo, STR8UP, Mike Yikes, Skip,Iqqi,Roman God and anyone else I forgot to mention.

Life is pretty good for me, I am married now with a kid. Marriage is ok, it's not what people make it out to be however. I have a beautiful daughter and love her more than anything. I will be 35 and have been out of the game for the last 1.5 years. I miss the game and still wonder how I would do if I got back in the game.

I have not been on the site because frankly am not active in the game and don't think I have much to add anymore.

So how is everyone? I hope everyone is doing well.

If you have any questions on the married life I guess you could fire away. lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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romangod

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lookyoung said:
I have not been on the forums for a long time but just wanted to say hi to everyone. Biblebelt, Karma Sutra, LMS, Guru 1000, Rollo, STR8UP, Mike Yikes, Skip,Iqqi,Roman God and anyone else I forgot to mention.

Life is pretty good for me, I am married now with a kid. Marriage is ok, it's not what people make it out to be however. I have a beautiful daughter and love her more than anything. I will be 35 and have been out of the game for the last 1.5 years. I miss the game and still wonder how I would do if I got back in the game.

I have not been on the site because frankly am not active in the game and don't think I have much to add anymore.

So how is everyone? I hope everyone is doing well.

If you have any questions on the married life I guess you could fire away. lol

Hi Lookyoung. Great to see you posting again! :up:


I've thought about how you're doing and how things went with the baby.


I'm doing good. I'm planning a trip to Europe again in May.


Don't feel that you have nothing to offer. Now that you're married you have tons to offer. Your experiences will be a valuable lesson for many here.

My question: Are you happy in your married life? I can see that you're a happy father.


Cheers!
 

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lookyoung said:
I have not been on the site because frankly am not active in the game and don't think I have much to add anymore.
Some would say being married is when your game needs to be the most active.
 

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I've always thought of 'the game' as being the game of human psychology. The skills that you use on women as a single guy are still very useful even when you're married, at least in an abstract sense. We all have to deal with women in ways beyond relationships - like work, business, and family. It's all the same human psychology.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Boilermaker said:
Have you found happiness ?
The married life has positives and negatives to it just like anything else. I am happy being single or married. I would say that marriage is not a fairly tale but it isn't horrible either.

I would say an Older man would benefit from being married to a good woman more than a younger man.

By older I mean 55 year plus.

Kids are awsome.
 

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Tazman said:
Some would say being married is when your game needs to be the most active.

I disagree with this. My wife doesn't really sh1t test me or anything like that. She does nag at times however but all around is a good woman.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I've always thought of 'the game' as being the game of human psychology. The skills that you use on women as a single guy are still very useful even when you're married, at least in an abstract sense. We all have to deal with women in ways beyond relationships - like work, business, and family. It's all the same human psychology.


It's totally different for me now. Like at work if I see a hot HB I make no attempt to talk to her or anything like that. Also now that I am married my inner game for gaming is not strong anymore so it shows on my outer game.

I have not been clubbing much since being married and I used to be really up to date on fashion. I still dress nice but not like I used to.
 
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