"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Have I messed this up?

ARrocket

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Duracell_Bunny said:
I feel a lot more relaxed for tommorow.

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See? Because you did what I suggested way up there somewhere ^ :rockon:

Good work Bunny, now just make sure to keep the same relaxed, indifferent attitude with the other girl, and you'll be well on your way!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Right then.

Lasts nights date with "the girl in my village" went well.

Went bowling (with a couple of drinks). Planned to watch a film but that didn't really happen as was got chatting away again on a high note with loads of teasing and some negs thrown in.

Instead went back to my local for more drinks. I suppose this gave her chance to see some social proof.

Walked her home and had a couple more back at her place.

She went upstairs and didn't seem to come back down for ages. So am sitting there telling myself shes just invited me in her house and what the fvck am I doing. So headed my way upstairs to find her. Just went for it there an then :p

Had a heavy make out session on her landing while she had me pinned agaist the wall going crazy. We moved on to the bedroom. Although she refused sex. We both had our tops off but even the slightest touch anywhere near her ***** led to her pulling my hand away. This happened 2/3 times.

I spent the night there. She drove me back home in the morning, even though its only a 5min walk. I went for a kiss properly this time, being soba an all that - which went intimate. She changed from a "I've got a headache" expression on her face, to having those beaming puppy eyes.

I now gotta problem that Friday nights date won't leave me alone. I had to turn my phone of last night, but just checked it when I got in and she sent 4 texts! The last one had nothing more than sad face, I guess cos I havn't responded to any of em or contacted her since Friday yet.
 
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