have I become a DJ?

[Jaun_Don]

Guys...I have slept with 3 different Women in less than a week and they all tell me the same thing...'do you know how sexy you are', 'I think I like you a lot'...I am sticking with one because she is amazing...but these other 2 still want me...**** I love this, I am seeing more ***** than a vet lately...

oh and the ex flatmate K called me the other day to ask me out for a coffee and I said no and that I didn't want her drama in my life.

wahooooo...
man life is good.

and I owe to all of you here...thank you.

J

My advice, just compliment them but not all of the time, listen to them, DO NOT EVER be scared to go in for the first kiss (they love the build up)...

Put your foot down for any **** tests and most importantly be happy with who you are because that is what they see and warm too.

 

[Nighthawk]

Excellent!. Yes, by the tone of those comments, and your summary of what you learnt, sounds like you might be DJ material.

PeronallyI'd ditch the compliments (unless they are very original and in fact make YOU look better), but if they work for you... Try it without sometime, see how that works.

"Be happy with who you are."

Very important.

"Put your foot down for any **** tests"

Even more important.

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by Nighthawk
Excellent!. Yes, by the tone of those comments, and your summary of what you learnt, sounds like you might be DJ material.

PeronallyI'd ditch the compliments (unless they are very original and in fact make YOU look better), but if they work for you... Try it without sometime, see how that works.

"Be happy with who you are."

Very important.



"Put your foot down for any **** tests"

Even more important.

Thanks I can't quite believe this I have 2 gorgeous girls wanting me and I want them both...It's such an awesome feeling...

:cheer:

 

[KarmaSutra]

Originally posted by Jaun_Don
Thanks I can't quite believe this I have 2 gorgeous girls wanting me and I want them both...It's such an awesome feeling...

:cheer:

I applaude you for sticking with the DJ principles and not swaying to the music or thier motion.

I don't think any of us should ever strive to reach the top otherwise there isn't anything left to aspire to and gain.

Proud of you brother. I just went out with a gorgeous woman I met at the grocery store. She calls me and asks for a date. I told her I'm vehemently against dating due to the expectations contrived therein and I don't need to pay for a womans attention. Off the bat she's enthralled and about 15 minutes of chitter chatter I tell her I have to do some shopping for my brothers wedding and she's welcome to tag along. We met and just had a ball! I used every tool in my DJ magic bag. 3 hours later we're at the fountain in Old Hyde Park smokin' cigars and she's all over me. She tells me she hadn't felt this way since she was in high school (she's 26). I have 2 other regulars whom I have reservations in thier beds who are exactly the same way towards me.

There is no feeling at all having women dote all of thier affection and desire on YOU!

Congruence is the greatest lesson one can learn from the DJ life. Proud of you my man, keep it up . . .literally
:cheer:

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by KarmaSutra
I applaude you for sticking with the DJ principles and not swaying to the music or thier motion.

I don't think any of us should ever strive to reach the top otherwise there isn't anything left to aspire to and gain.

Proud of you brother. I just went out with a gorgeous woman I met at the grocery store. She calls me and asks for a date. I told her I'm vehemently against dating due to the expectations contrived therein and I don't need to pay for a womans attention. Off the bat she's enthralled and about 15 minutes of chitter chatter I tell her I have to do some shopping for my brothers wedding and she's welcome to tag along. We met and just had a ball! I used every tool in my DJ magic bag. 3 hours later we're at the fountain in Old Hyde Park smokin' cigars and she's all over me. She tells me she hadn't felt this way since she was in high school (she's 26). I have 2 other regulars whom I have reservations in thier beds who are exactly the same way towards me.

There is no feeling at all having women dote all of thier affection and desire on YOU!

Congruence is the greatest lesson one can learn from the DJ life. Proud of you my man, keep it up . . .literally
:cheer:

I am in a bit of a spot though my man, see the 23 year old one that has been in my bed for the past 3 nights (and the sex is just incredible) is very keen on me and is staying in my city until August, She is from Nevada, Las Vegas and one of the greatest and most down to earth girls I have ever met, It's incredibly comfortable between us.

Here is the problem, the 20 year old with 2 cute kids is on my mind as well and I'm not sure wether to still see her or not...I had an amazing time with this girl on Friday night and she calls and texts me a lot.

I want both but how the **** do I do it?, I don't want to hurt either one of them...

When it rains it pours...damnnnn

 

[KarmaSutra]

The first thing to do is be honest with both of them. Vegas girl seems to be your #1 choice so put the priority on her.

Brother, A 20 year old single mother with two saddlebags is not my idea of fun. She'll be looking for a daddy figure, either for herself or her kids.

There is a great quote (one of many) from Glengarry Glen Ross in which Ricky Roma says " Always tell the truth it's the easiest thing to remember."

I live my life by this. I'm currently intimate with 3 women who all know about each other, no details, but they're all aware and fine with the fact that I'm not going to give any of them the whole pie. They each get a slice. Enough to feed 'em but not fatten 'em up!

Where you found those two you'll find others. Don't let the disease of One-itis fester in your mind.

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by KarmaSutra
The first thing to do is be honest with both of them. Vegas girl seems to be your #1 choice so put the priority on her.

Brother, A 20 year old single mother with two saddlebags is not my idea of fun. She'll be looking for a daddy figure, either for herself or her kids.

There is a great quote (one of many) from Glengarry Glen Ross in which Ricky Roma says " Always tell the truth it's the easiest thing to remember."

I live my life by this. I'm currently intimate with 3 women who all know about each other, no details, but they're all aware and fine with the fact that I'm not going to give any of them the whole pie. They each get a slice. Enough to feed 'em but not fatten 'em up!

Where you found those two you'll find others. Don't let the disease of One-itis fester in your mind.

Awesome words my friend...One Itis is NOT in my vocab anymore if she doesn't want to get it on then you just move on and find another the other fish in the sea is one of the truest and sensible statements ever.

You should ALWAYS have other options in the wings...I told a girl that lived down the road today about the Vegas girl and she got jealous and said that she was a lucky girl, now the thing is me and this girl have been good friends and close for years...and she told me she still sees her ex partner.

I have noticed that she comes over to my place a lot more these days and the other day she was wearing a very sexy open top that exposed her shoulders and well...there is mos def chemistry between us...could be another option...we are very comfortable with each other and have so much in common.

We will see...