"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Have I achieved what I've wanted with my gf?

WORKEROUTER

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So I took my gf's virginity last a few months ago, in January. I'm 19, she's 21.

Anyway, since then, we've been f*cking, a lot.

Sex use to be sh*tty with her. She would get sore really quick, start hurting, etc.

Anyway, I wasn't that good either, although I had quite a bit of experience prior.

This last week, however, she's "came" three times, meaning acheived orgasm and squirted.

I'm quite proud of myself, as not only do I feel like I've improved my game sexually, but that she's become a lot more comfortable with us.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rata Blanca

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WORKEROUTER said:
So I took my gf's virginity last a few months ago, in January. I'm 19, she's 21.

Anyway, since then, we've been f*cking, a lot.

Sex use to be sh*tty with her. She would get sore really quick, start hurting, etc.

Anyway, I wasn't that good either, although I had quite a bit of experience prior.

This last week, however, she's "came" three times, meaning acheived orgasm and squirted.

I'm quite proud of myself, as not only do I feel like I've improved my game sexually, but that she's become a lot more comfortable with us.
Perhaps that was the problem...
Yea well her first time will always suck I mean with the rupture of the himen, the pain, the blood, you get the picture...so the best is to start slow...you know with your hands ;)
Here are some basic tips for sex:
If she moans keep doing what you doing, trying adding something else. (more kisses, etc)
If she bites you it means she wants you to be wilder (harder, faster)
That works for me :p
Never stay in one rythm too long always change it or change the position
 

DrSassyPants

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Dude, she's a squirter? Sweeeeet. How comfortable she feels with you could have a little bit to do with her getting off....but it varies a lot from girl to girl. The first girl I had sex with was so easy to get off....she would usually have 5 or 6 orgasms before my 1st :woo:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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grr

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Gj man.

Just remember upping your sexual game is a CONTINUAL process when it comes to any woman, and also remember that too much sex per week is a BAD thing for females because that shows A) You love sex, so they may decide to control you with it and B) your variety in technique decreases with every sexual encounter lacking a new technique.

I would recommend 2 times a week max from my experience.

Then again you might want to beat my record of having sex 9 times in one day (I was 19), just play it by ear. :)
 
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