Hatred and Mistrust of Women

[Cheeks]

I've recently been dating a girl. She's ok I guess.

Lately I feel an intense dislike for women. I see them as disposable objects and resent any attempts they make to gain my affection.

Some background, my mother abandoned my family when I was a teenager (she was probably BPD) and my 3 year ex broke it off with me recently (she branch swung).

I feel like I no longer respect or value women and I'm seriously considering dropping this girl for no good reason. I don't even care if I'm wrong, every time I see a woman I just see a moral sinkhole and a waste of time. My only desire is to **** them and then never talk to them again.

I know it's unhealthy but I don't care anymore. What should I do?

 

[macallik]

many psychologists believe that the relationship you have with your mother dictates what relationship a male has with the opposite sex. Based on what you've typed, you don't seem fit or up for a relationship at the moment. My suggestion is to explain that to the girl you are seeing and/or if you can afford it (or insurance covers it) see a therapist to sort out some of the issues you are having that are affecting your ability to have a healthy relationship with the opposite sex

 

[Sir Psycho Sexy]

Whats wrong with fvcking them and never talking to them again? My guess is your young. Im also guessing that this phase wont last for ever. No guarantee but it probably wont. Quit worrying about it and just go with the flow OR go get professional help because nothing here will magically make you think different of women. Yes I too feel disgusted by women these days. They are sick whorish shadows of what a woman use to be. Good luck and let me know if your suddenly enlightened on how to respect the "modern woman" of the 21st century.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Well one of the problems that lead to hating and distrusting women is expecting too much and giving them too much trust to begin with.

That **** is earned. Even my best friend I am very wary of and I very slowly give more trust to as I see he can handle it and won't **** me over. It's earned and it takes time.

 

[floydb25]

It's probably because your girl just recently broke up with you. Those feelings are normal. Just don't let it consume you, or you will be angry and bitter for a long time. Not a good path to go down. Being a jerk and feeling like **** is all that comes from it.

Edit: didn't put a smiley on there...

 

[YouKnowI'mRight]

I've recently been dating a girl. She's ok I guess.

Lately I feel an intense dislike for women. I see them as disposable objects and resent any attempts they make to gain my affection.

Some background, my mother abandoned my family when I was a teenager (she was probably BPD) and my 3 year ex broke it off with me recently (she branch swung).

I feel like I no longer respect or value women and I'm seriously considering dropping this girl for no good reason. I don't even care if I'm wrong, every time I see a woman I just see a moral sinkhole and a waste of time. My only desire is to **** them and then never talk to them again.

I know it's unhealthy but I don't care anymore. What should I do?

See a couple of professionals. If you keep stewing in this funk you're in too long it may stick. None of us want to see that.

Things will get better but you gotta commit to sorting yourself out.

 

[5string]

I don't dislike women, but have an inherent distrust for them. And heck, I'm happily married. To be quite honest, I just don't trust them, at least to an extent. Maybe it's because I have been cheated on and lied to a number of times. I see no problem with the OP. Most of us have gone through this. With me however, it's become permanent over the years. I'm of the belief that you never really "know" someone. As such, you never know what they are capable of. I recognize this and believe it to be fact.

I said in another post yesterday that I will trust a person until they prove me wrong. I will give the benefit of any doubt. If I am proven wrong and the line has been crossed, there are no second chances.

Just being honest.

 

[SgtSplacker]

Interactions between women and men can be very complicated. Everyone has an agenda they want to fulfill in some way. Don't blame women in general, blame the particular women that have wronged you.

People are people and to generalise everyone is wrong and unhealthy. If you have a bias against women don't give up on all women, just try to find one that you like.

The best comparison I can make is that lots of women are like children. They just want what they want and thats it, they don't know why, or if they should have it, they just want it.