"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Haters Everywhere I Go. Advice From Fellow Dons Would Be Awesome!

ballinNY

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Whats up guys i just transferred to a new school in Mass and love it there. Let me give you the low down real quick im a good looking guy and im in great shape. I love socializing and am a friendly person in general. Well ever since I have arrived at this new school I got haters everywhere. I went to this bar where I talk to every girl I see in a friendly manner. Well I had 3 guys go ape **** on me for talking to their so called girls and the funny thing is that they are not even their gf's. They wanted to fight and all this **** and I was like dude I have no problem with you its all good and they still wanted to fight. I even said take the girl and they still talk ****. I get random facebook messages from this group of insecure fags sayin if I say a word to their girls they will beat my ass. I don't like fighting it leads to destruction but I dont like getting disrespected either when I did nothing wrong. I was just wondering how you guys would approach a situation like this because the constant **** talking has got to stop! Any advice on haters would be appreciated brothasss!:up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Prodigy746

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When you say you are in great shape do you mean you are built???? Reason i ask is because if you are small and easy to pick on there is not gonna be much you can do. I am 6'5 and never had any problems with guys bullying me so size in this case matters. They are probobly trying to show off in front of the girls, also if a girl is with a guy i would not try to approach her or talk to her. Thats a sign that you disrespect the guy, you might not intend to pick her up but it probobly seems like it to him. There should be plenty of girls out there that go out with their GF's instead of they guy friends.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Just ignore guys who hate on you.

If you are hitting on their girl just back off and find a single girl. Show you are in control and have the power. Show you are the better guy than, the other guys....
 

ballinNY

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Ignore them is right. Life is the **** guys! enjoy this!
 
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