Has anyone had this problem before?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

MountainSlide

Master Don Juan

Sep 20, 2015

So I go on many dates most of them I find to be boring and blah, not very interesting girls. Then I meet one girl who I'm actually interested but then she seems to be trying to lure me into a web of mental addiction. I have only been talking to her for a week, everything has been going pretty good, then suddenly she turns cold and pulls away. Anyway - what the **** is the point in a person like that and why the **** do the girls that at first seem awesome - end up being mentally deranged? And what is the best way to deal with these chicks?

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.