"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Has anyone ever met a "Virginal" BPD girl?

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Hey guys,

I think I met another borderline girl but this one claims to be saving her self for the perfect man and said she has never found anyone good enough for her. She's 22yos.

I think she's BPD or at least some kind of cluster B.

-She's has a dysfunctional family.
-She was completely ignore and was abuse by her father and uncle as a child.
-Not sure it it was sexual abuse but it sounded like just physical.
-Parents are now divorce.
-She has huge anger issue and admits to throwing violent angry outburst when she was longer.
-She has severe depression. Has severe anxiety.
-She wants the highest alpha male as her perfect mate for real but her standards for that through the roof. For real.

Last I heard from her, when I was getting "too close" she called me crazy. Now I don't think I was a boring AFC. I was at least funny because she said "I made her died from laughing." When I said I was getting close I mean I was pointing out similarities we had. Like similar likes, history, values, etc etc. We even have a dad with the same birthday. I told her that it was a sign. Then after that she ran.

Has anyone heard of this? I thought BPD were hyper-sexual? But this one is "virginal."? I guess this goes in the X-files. LOL.

Update: Technically she called me crazy and ran after I pointed out I know she has depression. Lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well Holy Jeezus! A BPD virgin? That's like having a Ferrari without a motor in it.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
She sounds more bipolar to me than borderline.
How is she bipolar?

5string said:
Well Holy Jeezus! A BPD virgin? That's like having a Ferrari without a motor in it.
Yeah. No $hit. Here's the problem, she's really feminine. She's like those 50's type of women you see on Mad men. She want's a masculine husband and don't mind playing the feminine roles like cooking and cleaning. Basically the type of women that we here on sosuave say that we should find. I thought she would be marriage material until I started seeing the crazy signs.

In addition to feminist bishes and borderline women, now we have messed up borderline virgins. Maybe it's just me, but the game just keep getting worse and worse every day.
 

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Dear Speculator,
BPD,Bi Polar....Virgin or Whoor,Mate does it matter?...nothing to be gained by hanging out of a Woman like that...and believe me if you get to know her you will find she is like an iceberg,the really dangerous bits are hidden...just jump on your bike and get away quick!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oh yeah. They're everywhere. As a rule, for me that is, if they're over 25 and a virgin, it's time to bail the fück out! Something's wrong GUARANTEED! I'm convinced that an unfücked woman goes insane. I've never met a sane virgin over 25.
 

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Speculator E said:
How is she bipolar?
Speculator E said:
-She has huge anger issue and admits to throwing violent angry outburst when she was longer.
-She has severe depression. Has severe anxiety.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bipolar_disorder
Individuals with bipolar disorder experience episodes of a very high mood known as mania alternating with episodes of depression.
 
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