“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Has anyone ever met a "Virginal" BPD girl?

Speculator E

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Hey guys,

I think I met another borderline girl but this one claims to be saving her self for the perfect man and said she has never found anyone good enough for her. She's 22yos.

I think she's BPD or at least some kind of cluster B.

-She's has a dysfunctional family.
-She was completely ignore and was abuse by her father and uncle as a child.
-Not sure it it was sexual abuse but it sounded like just physical.
-Parents are now divorce.
-She has huge anger issue and admits to throwing violent angry outburst when she was longer.
-She has severe depression. Has severe anxiety.
-She wants the highest alpha male as her perfect mate for real but her standards for that through the roof. For real.

Last I heard from her, when I was getting "too close" she called me crazy. Now I don't think I was a boring AFC. I was at least funny because she said "I made her died from laughing." When I said I was getting close I mean I was pointing out similarities we had. Like similar likes, history, values, etc etc. We even have a dad with the same birthday. I told her that it was a sign. Then after that she ran.

Has anyone heard of this? I thought BPD were hyper-sexual? But this one is "virginal."? I guess this goes in the X-files. LOL.

Update: Technically she called me crazy and ran after I pointed out I know she has depression. Lol
 

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Well Holy Jeezus! A BPD virgin? That's like having a Ferrari without a motor in it.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
She sounds more bipolar to me than borderline.
How is she bipolar?

5string said:
Well Holy Jeezus! A BPD virgin? That's like having a Ferrari without a motor in it.
Yeah. No $hit. Here's the problem, she's really feminine. She's like those 50's type of women you see on Mad men. She want's a masculine husband and don't mind playing the feminine roles like cooking and cleaning. Basically the type of women that we here on sosuave say that we should find. I thought she would be marriage material until I started seeing the crazy signs.

In addition to feminist bishes and borderline women, now we have messed up borderline virgins. Maybe it's just me, but the game just keep getting worse and worse every day.
 

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Dear Speculator,
BPD,Bi Polar....Virgin or Whoor,Mate does it matter?...nothing to be gained by hanging out of a Woman like that...and believe me if you get to know her you will find she is like an iceberg,the really dangerous bits are hidden...just jump on your bike and get away quick!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Oh yeah. They're everywhere. As a rule, for me that is, if they're over 25 and a virgin, it's time to bail the fück out! Something's wrong GUARANTEED! I'm convinced that an unfücked woman goes insane. I've never met a sane virgin over 25.
 

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Speculator E said:
How is she bipolar?
Speculator E said:
-She has huge anger issue and admits to throwing violent angry outburst when she was longer.
-She has severe depression. Has severe anxiety.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bipolar_disorder
Individuals with bipolar disorder experience episodes of a very high mood known as mania alternating with episodes of depression.
 
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