harridan: "I'm a Single Woman in Her 40s"

[MatureDJ]

Hang out with me tonight? No, I'm going to need 5-7 business days notice.

 

[SW15]

Watched that video. I can relate to it. Even women in their mid to late 30s act like her.

Dating a woman with those attitudes would be unpleasant.

Having to give that sort of advance notice for a simple date is going to make developing a longer term relationship quite difficult. Someone with that attitude might become part of a rotation of a more desirable man or a thirsty man might end up settling for that due to have no other options.

 

[Solomon]

1. Her attitude is the type of attitude a lot of guys on here struggle with(regardless of her age or the guy's age), these rules are all for guys, she feels "meh" about, the guy that gets her gushing all that goes out the window. The guy she really wants can spend the night, and doesn't even have to take her on a first date. The guy she is "lukewarm" about has to follow all the rules and is lucky to get a peck on the cheek at the end of a first date. She is the type of woman looking to disqualify a guy for any reason unless you are "That Guy". For most guys who have experience most likely you have been in both situations (the guy who has to jump through hoops vs the guy who she makes it easy for) You know when a girl really likes you they make it easy for you and break their own rules. Women like this (HoopJumpers)tend to not be worth the time and effort and usually, you end up wasting your time and money

2. The older I get the more strenuous of a vetting process I have, In the past if a chick is hot I would deal with her BS in hopes of getting some now that I'm older nope I don't bother, to me it's all about mutual effort. Dating in 2024 a lot of women are just lazy, the women who actually make an effort iME tend to be the ones worth keeping around. The problem is a lot of men chase after women who make low effort because they have lack of options or the girl is hot. Guess what the next guy she is more keen to

What's my point? don't deal with a woman who gives you here worse while you giving her your best