Hardest thing about them women.

[moneyisking]

We all go through life's bull shyt called women, while some of us do really good (Don Juan), some intermediate, and some real shytty.

Thanks to lots of posts and knowledgeable gents in this forum, I have learned many things in the past yrs and can definitely say improved.

But when it comes to women, I still lack a lot of things: confidence, recklessness, not giving a fvck, etc. In the end though, I think this is the BIGGEST problem when it comes to women with me (of course, I want to hear your opinions and if you have any solution to this problem).

The problem is: that women keep stepping into the "Do-Matter" zone.

What I mean is that... I function the best sexually and in game when I just don't give a rat's a$$ and that makes me treat women like little girls -pook. That is why I think a lot of people have better game when they are intoxicated b/c they just don't give a shyt what girls think of them. Same goes to me.

When I am in THE ZONE and truly feel it, I treat all women like little girls and could care less about scoring with her. And gentlemen trust me, it really works (all written in DJ Bible). Last night, I felt it, and treated women as if they were little girls at the party, and could have gotten laid with one of them, but c0ck-blocked by her ex; she offered to drive me home at 1:00 AM. It's amazing considering the fact that I am still a virgin and was sober at the time, and she was really cute.

By this time you all know that reading and knowing the theory such as "treat women like little girls" and actually do understanding and feeling the same phrase is very different. I fully know that treating them as such works perfectly, but like mentioned above, the biggest problem is that they keep stepping into my Do-Matter zone, the Got-to-score zone.

I want to ask you, how do you not let those problems step into the mind? I believe this is very inner-game, attitude related question, so I am looking forward to a experienced Don Juan to advice me. Thank you.

 

[slaog]

Theres nothing hard about understanding women.


You need more patience when dealing with women. Its good to treat like little girls and make them feel good but if you try too hard to impress them they'll notice and get turned off.


Never chase women. Let them know you're interested but also let them know you're not desperate. This will let them believe you have plenty of options and make you seem higher value.

 

[moneyisking]

Theres nothing hard about understanding women.


You need more patience when dealing with women. Its good to treat like little girls and make them feel good but if you try too hard to impress them they'll notice and get turned off.


Never chase women. Let them know you're interested but also let them know you're not desperate. This will let them believe you have plenty of options and make you seem higher value.

ya, the good thing about it is that I DON'T try to impress them or feel nervous when I can actually treat them like that. It makes me NOT chase them, but they see something in me by my behavior and they chase me.

But like I said, knowing by head and having it in the heart is very different. I wish I can be in that state every time.

 

[slaog]

ya, the good thing about it is that I DON'T try to impress them or feel nervous when I can actually treat them like that. It makes me NOT chase them, but they see something in me by my behavior and they chase me.

But like I said, knowing by head and having it in the heart is very different. I wish I can be in that state every time.

The more you try to change the easier it gets. It does take time to make it a habit but as I said, if you put in the effort you'll get there. Affirm to yourself what you want, think about it and it'll start to effect your subconscious and become a habit/natural.