Hanging out in places conducive to attraction?

[Aresx]

Okay, here's the scoop.

My LTR just broke up with me (weird, first I always dump her, now she dumps me - don't know how long this 'breakup' is gonna last). Point is, I'm single this weekend.

So I called up a friend tonight, and we set up a meet for tomorrow night. I've known this chick since high school, her face is a 7 (think 80% Buffy the Vampire Slayer's face), but her body is a 5 (not fat, just her waist is a little wide).

She's the one in the yellow in the back of these pics (the one in the front is my GF/exLTR?)
http://img71.exs.cx/img71/8841/debmemar.jpg
http://img17.exs.cx/img17/9375/dbm2.jpg

Anyway, I think this chick's IL in me is pretty good, she just broke up with her BF of 6 months. She turned 21 the day after me, and we are supposed to "legally get drunk" together. In my (LIMITED) experience, this is chick-speak for "I want an excuse to **** you and not be considered a slut." Well, I've only seen that from one girl - HBFriend from my Field Reports (Adventures of a RAFC - read them and impart your knowledge, Obi Wan).

What I want to know is what atmosphere/activity is most conducive to turning her into a FB? Club & Beach? Bar? Breaking into a private pool?

She always does a little kino on me, so I'm thinking about just amping it up, before we're drunk. So when we're drunk, and she's holding on to me, it'll be easier to kiss her.

Maybe I'll do a 'smell her neck' move or something.

Any ideas from the seasoned pros?

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

You need to get her alone. Away from her friends...away from anyone who would talk...you need to get this girl away from anyone that would make her feel slutty or uneasy if she were to get drunk and FB you.

The night club - forget about it. too many other fellas trying to impose their game on her.

The beach - forget about it. too many other fellas there too.

plus..with both these situations, there maybe a chance that her friends see you and that could make her uncomfortable or have doubts if any 'he said she said' gossip comes out.

A simple thing is the old dinner and a movie at your pad...or hers.

If you want to add alcohol to the equation...go to the restaurant..get your buzz and have a good dinner...kino..be c/f...lead with your DJism.

When you invite her to your place or you guys plan to watch the movie at her pad...REMEMBER..

MAKE SURE THERE IS NOBODY ELSE THERE WHEN YOU GUYS ARE THERE.

Better yet, make it at your pad...tell your roommates or buddies that you want the place for yourself. If you go to her pad..you never know if her roommates may play the c*ckblock role and run interferance to your game.

Once she feels completely relaxed, at ease, and no worries about anyone seeing anything or hearing anything...she'll most definately become uninhibited..

KEYS to remember:

Women hate gossip...the moment they feel like someone will talk smack about someone they are f*cking..she'll drop you.

Never do a group date..make it just you and her..ALONE.

 

[Aresx]

i meant the beach at night... not south beach, but hallandale (this one is EMPTY... the type you'd get mugged at - although i've never gotten mugged myself)

thing is...

we both live @ home w/family
so her house or my house is out of the question...

hence the need for a place outside of the home...
besides my car (for when the girl is extremely turned on)
or a deserted golf course - nice but i'm not sure if she's the type to have public sex

ok, so far i've heard to avoid the club, which imight have ened up doing...
maybe dinner/drinking at the private pool
how would i transition from one to another?

 

[Six-String Samurai]

Hmmm... that's rough that neither one of you lives apart from your families. I'm gonna have to vote for your car, so keep it handy in case things get rough and ready. Good luck bro.

 

[Aresx]

yeah but where can i go and hang out with her that makes it easy to feel isolated, while still being social?

like if we were in the playboy grotto, we would be hanging out and then we could sneak away to one of the caves..

but we'e in florida and hanging out in the night.

come on guys, i'm seeing her tonight, what do i do?

 

[Aresx]

come on guys, i need your help for TONIGHT!

i wanna F*CK