"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hang Out with a Girl

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What do you suggest doing when hangout with a girl...Going out with her social circle(more then 10 people in the group), your social circle, or alone(4 less people)? I mean I prefer alone, but what about settling for less? What about when a girl invites me to come out with her, I am friends with members of the girl's social circle, but they don't know I am coming to game her and flirt with her.(Obvously I am not going to make her the center of attention, but she clearly wants me, and I want to build the pick up.) PLEASE GIVE ME SUGGESTIONS/TIPS FOR HANDLING BOTH TYPES SOCIAL CIRCLES.....I am good alone.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There are times when you should do each of those. Just go out and have fun.
 

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Say you're going to somewhere. Make sure your car is either fast or fun, preferably both. Ask her go come, and do an errand with you, then get ice cream after or something. Go to the mall.
 

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AC/DC said:
Say you're going to somewhere. Make sure your car is either fast or fun, preferably both. Ask her go come, and do an errand with you, then get ice cream after or something. Go to the mall.
I have been using this technique it works out good....I am just going to stick with it. For the first few hangouts atleast, then move onto the social circles. I think that would make things more comfortable for both of us. Thanks for the input.
 
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