Don't "NC" her, don't "backburner" her, just stop talking to her and move on. NC is when you're still trying to play games with her and use "tactics", total bunk... Just move the **** on with your life and ask out another girl.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Handling IHAB: Don't NC, Backburner Her
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