"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hand holding

Bryce556

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Not really a big tip, might have been posted before and I never read it but this is just something Ive noticed.

When holding hand with a girl hold it with your hand infront, as in your arm is in front of hers if she is beside you. Gives the subliminal message that you are the man and you are leading her somewhere, same goes for when your on a date with a girl, grab her hand to lead her somewhere, or where you intend to go.

Ive noticed positive reactions with this, opposed to holding with her hand in front. Never really had thought about this before when i wasn't doing much holding of a girl in general :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Huffman

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I think most people get this right instinctively.

When a woman has her hand in front, it feels like you're 5 years old and it's your mama holding your hand ;)
 
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