"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Haircut Dilemma

Flint Stoner

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Ok I just got shafted once again by getting my haircut.


I asked for a Caesar cut with a #4 on the sides and 1 1/2 inch handcut on top.. he gave me a 1 1/2 inch cut on top with a number #2(maybe shorter) on sides. I didn't realize how screwed up it looked until I got home and my hair on top is like a ****load longer than the sides and it just looks weird.

So.. does anyone have any suggestions on what I can do? Should I try trimming the top a little shorter? what's a good ratio for a #2 on the sides?


Here's a picture of a cut I may try to go for, it looks like the sides are quite short and the top looks pretty proportionate. What length do you think this guy has?
http://www.niata.net/cropshop/xmas/xmas26.jpg
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jake-inator

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I usually go to supercuts /greatclips to get my haircut. They key to a good haircut is not the place but the person who does it.

I usually try to stick with people who don't speak good english.
Chances are that in their country they actually learned how to cut hair.
Americans are so fu*king lazy.

My current stylist is an old korean lady,
and she can cut hair better than a 50 dollar haircut at sum fancy place.
I give her a nice tip too. ;)

Ohh yeah.. i go for 1 1/4 on the top with #3 on the side. Usually looks just like that pic after 5 days xcept not as GREASY. :D
 

Flint Stoner

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Thanks for the tip Jake.

yeah it seems like most of the people who cut my hair just want to do it as fast as possible and don't even really listen to what I ask for.


I guess I just have to let it grow :p
 
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