"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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had a bad week, told all the girls to fcuk off..what should i do now?

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i was sick and a lil depressed for a while, did some stupid stuff and got warned by cops (nothing serious), then i got the flu, when i got back to school i was behind like hell, so i told everyone except for 3-4 of my best buddies to go fcuk themselves, or had that attitude...now i have recovered...should i treat them the way as if nothing had happened? resume the c&f?

thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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your screwed
:nono:
 

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This is one of the times where an apology can come in handy. It will save your butt, trust me.
 

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dont flat out apologize. yes the word 'sorry' is good here, but only coupled with an excuse (that is actually pretty true). you got one:

you: hey sorry i've been an ******* this past week, i was sick and in trouble and a bunch of ****. are you pissed?

hope for forgiveness and remember, next time you feel ****ty DONT TALK TO PEOPLE. you will seem elusive, which is good. or at least much MUCH better than being an ass.
 

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Hey man, you could always use it to your advantage an be like

"hey let me make it up to you, let me take you out"

It could work man?!?!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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