"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Gym Pick Ups - Work!
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
DJBen
Master Don Juan
True, but there was a post earlier about paranoia wiht pick ups at the gym. Figured it'd get more attention here then anywhere else.Originally posted by DJBen
Thanks for that, but I believe this has nothing to do with health and fitness and everything to do with pick ups.
DJBen
Master Don Juan
I'm a big fan of meeting women in the gym, but only after a workout and a cold shower
Hell, it's as good a place as any
Damn straight. I was like "****, might as well". If not the gym, then where?Originally posted by DJBen
True
I'm a big fan of meeting women in the gym, but only after a workout and a cold shower
Hell, it's as good a place as any
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DJBen
Master Don Juan
*slips into his own little world of a hot sweaty woman after a workout... O.O*
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Careful ben, cold showers make your schlong shrink.Originally posted by DJBen
True
I'm a big fan of meeting women in the gym, but only after a workout and a cold shower
Hell, it's as good a place as any
btw, nice done renegade!
DJBen
Master Don Juan
...er, I dont do 'cold' approaches with my c0ck out, dude
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.