Guys that only talk about chicks

[Pandora]

How do you guys deal with guy friends that only talk about chicks. For me personally it gets very annoying. I talk about women a lot but i also talk about other things like current events, conspiracy theories, fitness, guns etc. But i have certain friends whose whole life revolves around their next piece of azz. Its like an endless validation pit for them. They are not interested in anything else. I want to tell them that this mindset is not healthy but i know that they will get confrontational or call me gay or sumthing. It gets annoying to be around them becuz this topic gets old after a while.

I know its ironic that im saying this on SoSuave. But in real life most of the posters here have other interests that they talk about also. Its interesting to note that its usually the guys that are only moderately good with women that become obsessed with obtaining them. The real naturals really dont talk about it too much.

 

[Outlaw_]

Find other guys with more varied interests.

This is probably a byproduct of you being 29. I imagine your friends are mostly in their 20s....it's a maturity thing, younger guys often feel they have to prove themselves as players.

I can vouch for this. I was a guy in my late 20's who was proving myself by showing off pics of new women I boned. And most of my friends were in the same boat. Now that I'm in my late 30's, me nor and my friends talk about how we are going to make our 1st million.

If you have problems finding dude friends & don't want to come off as gay at a bar/club by saying to guys let's hang out some times (Haha), then try meet ups or networking events.

 

[speed dawg]

Gets harder the older you get. The more unplugged I get, the more regular guys disgust me. I don't want to preach to them, but d*mn, it seems all of them have some sort of insecurity that makes them want to self-preserve some sort of way. Man, just be who you are. You don't have to tell me what you do for a living or ask what I do for a living. We don't have to measure d*cks.

Real male friends are a premium. Once you get them, don't lose touch. I still have a number of guys I keep in touch with regularly even though we don't live in the same town.

 

[pdx1138]

But i have certain friends whose whole life revolves around their next piece of azz.

I knew a guy (another region of the company I worked for) that did this. He was in his mid-40s at the time.

He actually had a great, good looking girlfriend. But whenever we flew out of town for work, he was on the pu$$y path with no other interest.
He would even settle for the lower tier of women, as long as it meant his wick would get wet.

This same guy had 3 kids with 3 different women and all were Ex's.
He has probably fathered other kids in the world he doesn't even know about.

 

[Insouciant]

speed dawg touched on this -- basically, the more unplugged you get, the less you find yourself talking about women.

You know what's even more surprising? Is the fact that women pick up on that. I work in an office that's 50/50 in the ratio on men and women. And what was mentioned on this thread was accurate: that the wannabes/ those that can't get women are the ones that are usually always talking about girls (to prove themselves to others).

But a Don Juan moves as if he already has abundance with women. And this may be the case. Girls sense this. The guy that doesn't get impressed by the way a woman looks off the bat is intriguing to them.

Consider this a good things -- you're not like most of the other beta males that walk the earth. You're on the path to becoming a Don Juan.

 

[apprenticedj]

I think it's the same as guys who only ever talk about one thing, whether it's women, lifting weights, sports, money etc. One sided people are boring!

 

[jonhaul]

Tell them to come here and read the DJ bible this very subject is touched upon.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Hang out with more hardcore nerds.

DnD guys will talk dungeons and dragons. I found one guy on the subway with swords tied to his back.

Magic Cards guys will talk nothing but magic.

Physics nerds at the hadron collider talk nothing but physics... NASA nerds talk about Nasa, UFO nerds about UFOs, Car nerds goto car shows, car clubs and are under the hood, comic nerds go to comic conventions... etc etc

You have to get to the nerd meccas and gathering points to meet them. People who are interested in stuff other than women and want others to know about it will do or wear things to attract and convey that message.

The guy I met with swords is actually trying to put together a fencing team and tutors people.

Also, truly confident nerds (the ones getting laid on a regular basis) aren't ashamed about being (into) something that doesn't involve pvssy. After you get pvssy on a regular basis, women become the most boring topic in the world.

 

[Pandora]

Consider this a good things -- you're not like most of the other beta males that walk the earth. You're on the path to becoming a Don Juan.

I 100% agree.The problem is that guys that only talk about chicks don't help with the de pedastilasation of chicks. They make it worse. Its like they encroach on your DJ. Hanging around them will make you revert to your old ways of elevating women to a ridiculous importance. When you try to cut these guys out of your life they take it personally.

A lot of obsessing about girls is a lack of self value. These guys often have huge ego and self esteem voids that they try to fill with chicks. The thing is no matter how many girls you sleep with you will always have self esteem issues if your inner game is weak. As a DJ we have worked on ourselves to the point that we can fill our own void ( for the most part). Being around these guys is toxic.