Guys i think i finally got the idea ! (what's your opinon ??)

[TheMale]

Guys i think i finally got the idea ! (do i ??)

Hey guy

another thread but this one is after i got a lot of information i was looking for so before i start i wanna thank : comic_relief, sodbuster, Social_Leper, Badmannaz, Diaforetikos, snowdog for all this help and making it clear for me

tu resume my story im 21 years old from Caribbean actually living in Israel
i first discovered the seduction community by a french forum with a lot of information but comming from mystery style ross jeffries and David D.
after reading a lot of stuff i starter to practice then i discovered the natural game by gambler it was a little different from all that stuff i use to know but style quite the same ...
so i continued to practice and train a lot use all this DHV routine, Cold reading and the neg theory well i used a lot of this sh!t but ive always wanted to be a natural

i had my test period (im studying Psychology and NLP) so i had 4 months of stand by (from seduction)

after this for month i was a little bit come back to my begining and found a new a lot of new excuses but not like the begining
my excuses was that every time i was going to approche a woman i was always looking for the default (google translate) and i was like : 'them she's not good enough for me, her jeans doesnt fit her shoes'

until one day i found the book of pook it was not a long time ago maybe 1 month ago and discovered what ive always wanted to know about natural

so i came her to figure it out how it working and heres what ive could understood:
we first need to work on ourselves do whatever we want be free be a man be sexual be ambitious make our dreams come true travaleing working etc.

and thats making a big difference between the DJ (what describe up) and the nice guy
even if we do all the same stuff as the nice guy so go out there and approche woman by say : 'hey you ook cute enough and i wanted to know you' have a a different because the girl would see the difference you are more confidence more sexual more attractive and more the one who makes his life better the guy who have a lot of choice in women
even if we have a date in a restaurant or else we're not affraid to say what we want to compliment her (not a lot cause its needy) because we have the choice and if shes not up to accept us as we are then we just need to get up and walk away make her believe you can go whenever you want
thats way the neg theory is lame
and so the DHV routine cause your life is so interesting that your life by itself is a DHV

and thats was snowdog told me (guys don't be jealous of him ;p)

The big secret:

All you need to do is be yourself.

If yourself isn't good enough, improve it till it is.

so instead of using indirect opener and all this stuff cause the woman know youre tryin to pick her up why dont we go straight to her saying what we think and assume it ?!

so from the begining be honest dont affraid to show your desire
and as the pook said : 'dont be affraid from your testosterone!'

and if the woman is not enough open mind to accept us so its not a big deal theres a lot of women who do accept us as we are

we need to be a good listener and a mystery to them
do whatever we want and take them to a date wherever we want!

and for that the firs steps is to work on ourselves get the state of mind that we are happy with or without a woman
and assume our desire

now i just need to apply it !!!!


let me know what's your opinion

 

[TheMale]

nothing to add ?
i wanna know if im in the right way before i start to practice

 

[TheMale]

had very limited success and even when I was successful it was a hollow victory because I wasn't really enjoying myself or felt like I was being me. I actually had one girl ask if I just made what I was saying up so I could speak to the group. Insincerity is more obvious than you'd think.

that's exactly the way i felt !

thx man

anyone else can gimme an opinion about that ????

 

[comic_relief]

not much more to add to this conversation

I never used to the canned openers or anything. I just had to break the back of my "AFC-ness" but I can understand unlearning everything that is difficult.

good luck with everything drop me a PM if you need any help along the way

- comic_relief

 

[Cherokee]

The key difference is between wanting and needing.

If you show a woman that you want her, she will go with your charming ways, even if you throw in a few compliments, after all there is nothing wrong with making a girl feel good.

However, if you come across like shes the only option you could ever have, her fire goes out quickly... no one wants the guy that couldn't get anyone else, can you imagine?

Be yourself, be it quirky, intellectual, artist, eccentric, athletic...

and more importantly, have fun.

 

[TheMale]

ok
thank you guys !