Guy tries to pick a fight while he's trying to pick up my GF in a bar

[backbreaker]

you can't make this crap up. I promise, I need to hire a company to just follow me around with a camera. the **** i see and that happens to me on a weekly basis. Boy.

anyway, We go to the horse track today, as what we usually do on a saturday. WE are hungry afterwards, and there is this sports bar that has some really good food nearby so we go.

We are sitting at the bar eating. she's having a drink. we are both watching TV and chatting. so I step outside to take a very important phone call, and there is this guy talking to my GF at the bar when I get back, ovbiously extremely intoxicated.

She gave me this "this ******* won't leave me alone look". So I said hey excuse me this is my seat. you would think that would be the end of it? Umm. no. The guy has decided damnit this is his woman and he "saw her first" and i wasn't going to move in on his woman and I would have to fight him for her. my now my GF is crying laughing and Im' trying not to laugh at the guy. I'm like dude, this is my GF. we came here together which my GF of cousre confirms.

So now he is mad at my GF for "talking to him when she had a BF" (when in reality she made it known she did not want to talk to her he was just too drunk to tell) and calls her a slut. Now I've had it and I tell him to back off. He's about 5'9 170ish pounds, maybe 35. I've already sized him up and i'm pretty confident that if it came to it I'd beat the breaks off the guy but it should not have to come to that. But i know he's drunk so I'm just trying to get rid of him.

By now my GF is just ready to go and as I but I have to pay for the food, and I thinkt he waiter is just playing around becuase he wont' come with the ticket so we can get out, and the guy is on one. It took everything in my power not to hit the guy as he would not shut up about how my GF "used him for attention". this guy was pissy drunk.

Anyway, the manager finally came out and kicked the guy out and gave us a free meal for our inconvenience and we were on our way.

 

[Julian]

douchebags are everywhere brah

props on keeping your cool

 

[speakeasy]

If some guy calls my GF/wife a slut to her face while I'm standing right there in front of her, he's losing some teeth. Drunk or not.

 

[spider_007]

If some guy calls my GF/wife a slut to her face while I'm standing right there in front of her, he's losing some teeth. Drunk or not.

As much as i wanna say, leave it to the girl to send him on his way, and as much as i would like to say that i would have patiance with a drunk guy call ing me and mine names - i probably would have punched him.

 

[speakeasy]

That seems excessive.

Plus, you never know when someone is going to pull out a gun, or his "boys" are going to jump on you while you have your back turned.

Well if it happens it happens. You can "what if" the situation to death.

And what if you hit the guy, he falls and cracks his skull on the floor and dies? Then you're in some serious ****.

You might be in trouble, but it's not like you're going to get 1st degree murder or something. Especially when some guy was verbally assaulting and acting threatening to your loved one. I don't think there's a right or wrong way to handle a situation like above, I'm just saying that I'd have punch the assh0le in the face if he called my girl a slut. And he'd have deserved it 110%. And I'm not the kind of dude that walks around looking for trouble either.

 

[PRMoon]

This is why it's good to have two things on your side. The police officers so you can knock people out without fear of prosecution and a nice set of brass knuckles. That's the formula for success!

Now it this guy was drunk I probably wouldn't put lead to lips. That's just wrong because I've f*cked up sober guys with knucks before and I even felt a little bad about that. Drunk guy calling my girlfriend a slut, I typically just berate them and make the look dumber then they are. Fortunately for me, my girl can fight so she would have done the hard work herself. She's a bad b*tch man, those kick boxing cardio classes she takes keeps her lookin slim and handling jerks at her club.

 

[KontrollerX]

This is why it's good to have two things on your side. The police officers so you can knock people out without fear of prosecution and a nice set of brass knuckles. That's the formula for success!

Now it this guy was drunk I probably wouldn't put lead to lips. That's just wrong because I've f*cked up sober guys with knucks before and I even felt a little bad about that. Drunk guy calling my girlfriend a slut, I typically just berate them and make the look dumber then they are. Fortunately for me, my girl can fight so she would have done the hard work herself. She's a bad b*tch man, those kick boxing cardio classes she takes keeps her lookin slim and handling jerks at her club.

Though its tough as hell to hold yourself back from violence in situations like this trying what PRMoon suggested first and hoping the guy swings on you first is probably the second best tactic next to simply walking away.

You can get right up in the face of a drunk guy who calls your girl a wh0re and say "coming from a man whose got a wh0re for a mother that doesn't mean much".

Get equally as vile as the guy and if he's provoked to swing on you its then self defense for you to take him down and beat the crap out of him.

Thats one of the cases where having witnesses around is a good thing.

 

[backbreaker]

or you could just walk away. it'snot like my GF thinks i'm a b!tch becuase I didn't beat his ass. we are both very practical people.

had she been physically threatened...okay. different story.

but beating up a drunk man beuase he called my GF a naughty name is just as childish as the guy calling my GF a naughty name because she won't **** him.

 

[steve38]

No offense to the OP, but that seems kind of 'beta' to me. I'm sure your GF said that you did the right thing, but I wouldn't be surprised if she lost some respect for you for not defending her and punching the guy. Especially when he sat there and continued to trash her. JMHO.

 

[Ganondorf]

No offense to the OP, but that seems kind of 'beta' to me. I'm sure your GF said that you did the right thing, but I wouldn't be surprised if she lost some respect for you for not defending her and punching the guy. Especially when he sat there and continued to trash her. JMHO.

bro, there was nothing Beta about what he did.

He handles the situation nicely and without violence. Had his GF been attacked by the man then it would have been different, but there's no need to flip your wig and punch every guy who has a problem with your Girlfriend. That's weak and childish

 

[backbreaker]

you are more than entitled to your opinion, just like the guy in the bar was entitled to his.

 

[steve38]

I was thinking this was the quintessential "defending her honor" situation. Guess not.

 

[Bible_Belt]

or you could just walk away. it'snot like my GF thinks i'm a b!tch becuase I didn't beat his ass. we are both very practical people.

had she been physically threatened...okay. different story.

but beating up a drunk man beuase he called my GF a naughty name is just as childish as the guy calling my GF a naughty name because she won't **** him.

I very much agree. You handled yourself well.