Guy thoughts

[Bigpapa]

When I am seeing girls that I do not see as more than a fwb , I am just saying to me that who knows maybe I will find a quality girl

when I find a quality girl , after a while I get bored of her after a short while and want to sleep with someone new

then eventually things fall apart and you are back at square 1

what people forget to mention is that the better you get the girls , the lonelier you actually become . Quite the opposite of what you thought it will be

I think that the ideal state of things for a guy is to be blue pilled minus the getting hurt and being screwed over by women part . Basically being a naive without getting also the consequences

 

[TheNewStyle123]

When I am seeing girls that I do not see as more than a fwb , I am just saying to me that who knows maybe I will find a quality girl

when I find a quality girl , after a while I get bored of her after a short while and want to sleep with someone new

then eventually things fall apart and you are back at square 1

what people forget to mention is that the better you get the girls , the lonelier you actually become . Quite the opposite of what you thought it will be

I think that the ideal state of things for a guy is to be blue pilled minus the getting hurt and being screwed over by women part . Basically being a naive without getting also the consequences

Same man. I was just having this thought the other day. Coming from a recently divorced perspective these past few months have been like a dream to me. This has been the best point in my life both physically, mentally, and financially - and being able to fuuck a bunch of different women has felt surreal, as I imagined myself being in a passionless marriage for years to come.

But, with that being said, the nights where I am alone in my apartment due to lack of plans or plans falling through with a girl, I feel that sense of loneliness. I crave more female interaction, sex, passion, affection, and attention - especially since it had been so long since I was getting all of that. It will be difficult to enter a LTR again, although there is a girl now I am talking to who really drives me crazy.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

When I am seeing girls that I do not see as more than a fwb , I am just saying to me that who knows maybe I will find a quality girl

when I find a quality girl , after a while I get bored of her after a short while and want to sleep with someone new

then eventually things fall apart and you are back at square 1

what people forget to mention is that the better you get the girls , the lonelier you actually become . Quite the opposite of what you thought it will be

I think that the ideal state of things for a guy is to be blue pilled minus the getting hurt and being screwed over by women part . Basically being a naive without getting also the consequences

I'm old school when it comes to women. I've stated so many times now that OLD or modern dating is such trash that I decided to stop.

I stopped for many reasons, but mainly because in my experience it cultivates a toxic mentality towards intergender relationships, it is unrealistic and automatically puts pressure and labels on things which ultimately ruins things.

I prefer to live my best life (for my sake) and have a blast doing what I love, stop caring (and I mean truly not caring, not lying to yourself thinking you don't care but deep down you do and that is hard/take time), stop being p***y whipped (slave to sex/porn/masturbation) and the results will come. So far it has proved to be very satisfying to meet women like that and quality women I must say, plus many of I could see myself committing to. No longer do I find myself wasting my time or crossing paths with toxic women.

It really just depends on your lifestyle and philosophy. Whatever works for you. But just know that the true definition of insanity (or stupidity for that matter) is continuing on doing the same thing expecting different results.

Hope this helps.

Modern Man Advice

 

[NoMind]

I'll admit I haven't pursed much women over the last few years partly because I invested most of my time looking inside myself since encountering Eckhart Tolle.

I now realise that the mind is the source of all my problems in life. When the mind is quiet and i stay in the present there is no problems only challenges that can be dealt with a clear mind.

I would recommend any man here to listen to the audiobook of Eckhart tolle the power of now. Changed my life. The full version is on YouTube.

Now whether a women is with me or not I am content with myself especially while alone now. There is a major difference between loneliness Vs aloneness. Loneliness is missing someone. Aloneness is being content with yourself.

Obviously female company will always be craved by the body as it's built to procreate.

I may went on a tangent here but feel it's important for people to be able to be content by themselves.

No other person or thing can make you happy only the joy of your own being.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Fulfillment comes from your purpose, guys who seek fulfillment through women are doomed to become black pill because they'll never find it, game without purpose isn't game

 

[AussieEducator76]

You're only lonely if you haven't found your purpose. Once you know that, you'll start looking for it. I haven't found mine yet, but the search has made me happy and I don't ever feel lonely.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I read power of now and silence speaks years ago when I was going through my self-improvement and discovery phase. Definitely good to go through, but I found the book didn’t help directly with pick up. More of a general life improvement but not applicable to picking up girls

 

[Machine10033]

Like a lot of guys above said. I am working on becoming a scratch golfer, having fun day trading, taking a carpentry class two nights a week, working on getting my next promotion at work, being the best friend I can be, working out 5 days a week, taking care of my yard, scouting deer in prep for archery season... prepping my food for the week.... I prioritize activities that make me better over female company. I never feel lonely and also never have an issue finding a girl when I have a free night. Pursue the best version of yourself.

 

[metalwater]

When I am seeing girls that I do not see as more than a fwb , I am just saying to me that who knows maybe I will find a quality girl

when I find a quality girl , after a while I get bored of her after a short while and want to sleep with someone new

then eventually things fall apart and you are back at square 1

what people forget to mention is that the better you get the girls , the lonelier you actually become . Quite the opposite of what you thought it will be

I think that the ideal state of things for a guy is to be blue pilled minus the getting hurt and being screwed over by women part . Basically being a naive without getting also the consequences

That is one of the things many religion tries to do(blue pill with rules). It is not perfect, but it actually works and as a result, must be abolished. When the rules become lax and the consequences become mitigated it no longer works. Exactly as we see today.

 

[metalwater]

I read power of now and silence speaks years ago when I was going through my self-improvement and discovery phase. Definitely good to go through, but I found the book didn’t help directly with pick up. More of a general life improvement but not applicable to picking up girls

that's a great book. not directly tied to getting girls at all. it is about calming inner chaos so that space will exist to grow. it's hard to grow when the mind is crowded with weeds.