"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If there was a little bunny running around near you, would you kill it? Of course not it's a cute little bunny rabbit, let's play with it! Now suppose you are in the wilderness and you haven't ate for 10 days. Would you still play with the rabbit or would you smack his f-u-c-k-e-n head with a rock and eat the mother f-u-c-k-e-r?!?!


The same is with girls. Social conditioning makes us stop the sexual urge. We think it is wrong so we don't let our testosterone drive us. No wonder we don't **** girls if we aren't in the state to do it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Some of us on here don't need that extra testosterone to get up the confidence to talk to girls. It becomes a daily routine, sort of like muscle memory. I will admit though, when the testosterone is flowing it is hard to go wrong.
 

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That was a dam good analogy.
 

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WC2 said:
Some of us on here don't need that extra testosterone to get up the confidence to talk to girls. It becomes a daily routine, sort of like muscle memory. I will admit though, when the testosterone is flowing it is hard to go wrong.
Building muscle memory is like hunting skills. You still got to catch the rabbit to eat it. But you won't use your skills best if you're not hungry.
 

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Wow, nobody sees anything wrong with getting up in a female's face with straight testoserone and ur d**k, ready to get sex from her like some trick at a strip club. Straight aggression, primal instincts? Cavemen ****ed alot because they would beat the women over the head and drag her to bushes and basically take the puzz. now you have the age of Equality, Women can choose. Straight physical force, and testoserone will make women dismiss you with the quickness. Its too bold. Youve never heard women say or think "wow this guys forcing it, i want something natural" "he was all over me" Theres a limit, any more aggressive, and you scare her off and come across like youre fiending.

I dont buy into the myth that women want sex as much as men. I 100% agree with they like sex more, and have more to get out of it.

(1) Most men have the weakness that they can be manipulated sexually. This is why most men cant be pimps. Women do not get manipulated sexually.
(2) Women gets out of a ltr, after 2 weeks, the guys gonna wanna beat off, after 2 weeks shes good
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Migel said:
If there was a little bunny running around near you, would you kill it? Of course not it's a cute little bunny rabbit, let's play with it! Now suppose you are in the wilderness and you haven't ate for 10 days. Would you still play with the rabbit or would you smack his f-u-c-k-e-n head with a rock and eat the mother f-u-c-k-e-r?!?!


The same is with girls. Social conditioning makes us stop the sexual urge. We think it is wrong so we don't let our testosterone drive us. No wonder we don't **** girls if we aren't in the state to do it.

I don't get what this has to do with Gunwitch.. please enlighten me sir :up:
 
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