Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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YAMON dj

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Everyone wants "revenge" and the last "say or punch". In otha wordz, you dont want THEM to feel like they won.
Me too, but if they feel like they've won... SO WHAT! let em feel that way, but dont dwell.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by YAMON dj
Everyone wants "revenge" and the last "say or punch". In otha wordz, you dont want THEM to feel like they won.
Me too, but if they feel like they've won... SO WHAT! let em feel that way, but dont dwell.
my 2cents
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Sorry guys, I'm new here, I thought i was responding to a different thread, didnt mean to make it a seperate one. Any admin plz delete this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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