"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Grip Strength

Being_the_Don

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This is for WBA and the other guys in the forum, what have you done to improve grip strength? My right arm is fine, grip is good but I've noticed that my left forearm gets sore and gets tired after I finish a set of deads, db squats or bench press. Suggestions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sit on a flat bench and lean over so your forearm is lying flat on the bench with your wrist and hand off. Get a 30 lb (or lower, or higher, depending on where you're at) dumbell and proceed to do curls.

I find it easier to push down on my working out forearm with my offhand because it keeps your elbow from coming up.

3x20 and you're set.
 

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- Hang from from a pull up position (ideally with a wide bar).
-reverse curls
-hammer girls..i mean curls

2:58 seconds into this video clip.
 

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Rock climbing will get your forearms and hands really strong quickly
 

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Rack Lockouts
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MrS

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Rack lockouts?

Captain of Crush grippers are excellent.
Plate holds.
Dumbell holds.
Farmers walks.
Heavy deadlifts!
 

Being_the_Don

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Everybody's making some good suggestions, and that video has some exercise variations I'll look into. Farmer's walk used to be part of my regular routine but then I switched out for a while for other exercises. The reason I decided to post about this is that when I went to the gym yesterday and started a farmer's walk, I was only able to make it the 15 feet up and then 3 feet back. I had to set down the dumbbell in my left hand. I have to check the journal for what I was carrying in farmer's walk before switching out but yesterday I was carrying 85 pounds. I shouldn't have been having trouble with my left forearm. That exercise Supremo mentioned I was doing at the gym last Thursday with 25 pound dumbbell with my left elbow rested on my knee. But my arm was so sore that I couldn't do more than two reps. For the most part I'm ignoring it and continuing to lift heavy to force it to work but I want to correct the problem now instead of allowing it to continue any longer.
 

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Be careful with heavy deadlifiting though because you can easily injure your back if you sacrifice form.
 

Being_the_Don

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Charm said:
Be careful with heavy deadlifiting though because you can easily injure your back if you sacrifice form.
Thanks, Charm. I take care to watch my form when I'm lifting, I have the same concerns that you do. We never want to injure our backs.
 

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Visions007 said:
Rock climbing will get your forearms and hands really strong quickly

vision has the right idea.
i dont mean to bring up an old thread but this definitly got my attention
of climbing experience
i have been climbing for 2 years and climbers have developed plenty of exercises to improve grip strength.

i am 6'1'' 170 lbs and 6% body fat. Before i started rock climbing i was 145... lanky as a motha fu*ka and probably 12% body fat.

Dead hangs, hang as long as you can on a pull-up bar, hang from one arm and shake out the pump on the other arm, then rinse and repeat on the other arm. (with this technique and a lot climbing experience i have been able to dead hang for over 13 minutes)

take a 10lb plate, sit down on a bench, and lean over pinching it with one hand in between your thumb and fingers for as long as you can, then switch hands, go back and forth between hands until you cant hold it longer than 30 seconds... the next time you do this exercise try 15 lbs.

Typewriters: Do a a wide chin up, then once your chin is up above the bar, you shift your body as far as you can to one side so 'most' of your weight is on one of your arms/hands, then stall for a second or two, and shift your weight to the other side

The above exercise is incredible not only for specific hand grip strength but your back, abs, and arms as well...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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