"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Great Quotes

PeakIV

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What was a great quote or saying that has stuck in your mind after coming to SS and taking the red pill that has reinforced your thoughts about women or relationships?

2 that have stuck in my mind are .....this one is for when you look at beautiful women and taking them off that pedestal..Just remember that someone, somewhere, is sick of her sh*it

The other one is....... Don't ever get attached to something you can't walk away from in 30 seconds flat"

Anymore?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This one is good and really nails it I think.

"You know, sometimes all you need is twenty seconds of insane courage. Just literally twenty seconds of just embarrassing bravery. And I promise you, something great will come of it."
 

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Fortune Favors The Brave.

No Guts No Glory.

Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent.

We either make ourselves miserable, or make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I remember this one since I was told this by my buddy at 18 and relates to everyday life, business and getting your sh*it together, always remembered it.

If you want to fly with the eagles, stop running around with the turkeys
 
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