"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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great questions to ask her

just so suave

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I just got these question suggestions in an email, and I think they will get some interesting answers from girls.

1.Did you have an Imaginary friend when you were young?

2.Do you remember your first day at school?

3.If you could wake up tomorrow anywhere in the world, where would it be?

4.Are your friends mostly men or women?

5.What's the one thing you can't say no to?

6.What talents do you have that would surprise me?

7.Have you been in love?

For question 6 it said have something ready to come back with, because its likely she'll ask you the same question. So iv'e came up with some quick C+F answers:
-I can tie my own shoe laces
-I don't like to brag, but i know all of the alphabet up to the letter F
-I can count to 10.

Eventually you'll have to tell her a serious answer, and thats really down to you, as only you know your true talents. If you don't have any, just make something believable up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hmm nice ideas although maybe not the best for cold approach

and your 3 answer arent really C&F are they?
I always thought C&F is teasing the girl like:
Thats something i learned when i was 3 no big deal... or
Thats not talent... etc ;)
 

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If you could have a superpower what would it be? - fun

From DavidD:
What's the craziest thing you have ever done? (I think it's hard to answer but haven't tryed it yet).
Who do you think it's the superior gender? - Leads to all kinds of C&F and it's fun.
 

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I'd answer #6 something like, "Woah, getting a little desperate, are we? I haven't even kissed you yet."

Meh.
 

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hmm nice ideas although maybe not the best for cold approach
Yeah, their probably best for when you're on a date.

and your 3 answer arent really C&F are they?
I always thought C&F is teasing the girl like:
Thats something i learned when i was 3 no big deal... or
Thats not talent... etc
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True lol, I need to read up on C+F again
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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