"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Great first date!

fortfun_24

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Holy crap. It's one thing not to act too stoked to her but to you guys I can express some elation!

IOI's right after I picked her up, which was great, hell she grabbed my hand as we were walking down the street after parking the truck!! It was sort of a blind date although we had some txt communications prior to going out. But realistically I didn't know what to expect. It was really the first time I had try to put to some use what I have learned out here in the manosphere. Subtle negs through out the night, things like that. Lots of change of venues, great conversation, a little smack talking while shooting pool. Although I'm 6'2" and she is 4'11" so I had to violate the no leaning in for part of the night, as it was kind of hard to hear someone over a foot below me in a noisy place. LOL Ahhhh what can I say it was breath of freshair compared to what I have been going out with in the past several months.

I kind of get a feeling she might be a stage 5 clinger though, but we shall see after date #2.

I haven't been posting or replying much lately but have been reading plenty and want to thank you all for posting what you do. It's amazing, gotta love the red pill!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah, we were kissing before we had our first drink! You could tell the tension was there from the moment we sat down. It was pretty crazy!
 

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I guess I probably could have put this in a date report format, but I'll just leave it open to any questions. I'm bored at work! I also just watched Roosh's vid post from the 9th, hmmm... but as I said before I'll keep my thoughts to you guys!
 
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