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Got this number last night - When should I call her?

guywhoneedshelp

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Once again I have an idea of how I'd play this out, but I'm curious as to what the community here has to say.

Me and 2 friends go to the D&B. They decide to be AFC's and sit at the bar so I go wandering around with my card, I see some HB9 playing some bull sh!t game so I go up to her "how does this work" she says I made her lose so we joke haha very funny whatever I walk away.

Then I see her watching some guy play House of the Dead so I'm like "oh wow he looks pretty into it. playing with 2 guns" we joke haha very funny she tells me that guy is her sisters friend and I see her sister sitting next to the guy as he shoots zombies. Then people finished playing Tennis so I went over there and played. I see her looking lonely so after 2 games of Tennis I call her over to me "YOOOO COME PLAY TENNIS" my friend is laughing thinks it's the worst approach ever but she comes over, swipes her card and plays, smiling the whole time. She learned the game pretty quick, we played doubles and got past the first round so I was like "aight this girl is worthy. she can play games"

Later I see her when she is cashing out her tickets so I'm like "yoooo you finished playing?" she's like yea so I'm like "well who's gonna play basketball with me then?" she's like "I would but I'm out of points..." so I'm like "I got it" so I swipe for her we're playing LOL I beat her so since she sucked I kinda didn't like her as much but... I asked her if she comes here often and what other things she does with her evenings and she's like "yea we go bowling, I suck at that. we go mini golf, I suck at that too" so I was like "aight you sound like fun we should hang out some time" so she's like "yea...I never got your name" I tell her my name then give her my phone and my AFC friends come over kinda rushing me like they wanna get outta there it's only 1:15 AM but whatever. I get the number then call it so she has mine, then say good bye.

I was like aight you AFC's I'm tryin' to work my game here you crampin' my style so we leave but I got her number how long should I wait to call her?
 

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Just call her when you're going out again and see if she wants to meet up. There's no "set" time you should call. Call whenever the fvck you feel like hanging out with her.
 

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I think I have some serious issues. Looking back, most of the lays I got were from doing the "give me your number" approach, then calling them right away so they have my number, then waiting for them to call.

It just hit me. If I call this girl I'd have no idea what the hell to do. I guess we'll just have to go bowling or something like Niko and Michelle in Grand Theft Auto 4
 
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