"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I_lyke_Turtles

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How long to wait to call/text a girl after getting her number?
What is flaking?
How to avoid flaking (lol)?
How to avoid the friendzone?
How to start a conversation with a girl?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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1) 3 days, 7 hours, and 28 minutes (lol)
2) Flaking means "to bail out of a situation at the last minute." Like, if you ask a girl to the movies and she calls you an hour before the movie and says she can't make it due to <insert DOG ATE MY HOMEWORK excuse here>.
3) Avoiding flaking? That's tough. You have make the girl value YOU, not the other way around. She better fvcking feel HONORED to go out with you. If Angelina Jolie asked you out on a date, would you cancel? Didn't think so.
4) Ah, the friendzone. This, my friend, is a fate worse then Purgatory. My gut tells me that in order to avoid the FZ, you need to continue to give IOIs to her and make her KNOW that you're interested in her. Kino and mild flirting helps a lot with this.
5) - Find target
- Check if your nuts are still there [nutcheck]
- Approach: There are many ways to strike up a conversation. Such as, "Hi, how are you? My name is [NAME]. I noticed you noticing me and wanted to talk to you. What's your name?"


Best of luck.

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1. Whenever you feel like it. A few days or even as little as a few seconds while she is still standing in front of you. But just try not to come off as needy.

2. Previously explained, and there really isn't multiple answers to that question.

3. Start out being confident from the get go. Don't ask her things about where to go or what time. Tell her what the deal is. You two are going to go do ____ at ____. If you are confident or come off as confident it will make her more sure of herself that she will want to be there.

4. If you like a girl, listen to your hormones (but don't let them completely control you). If you touching her (correctly) and are sexual in your demeanor and conversation it's hard to be put in the friend zone. She will either start to return the affection, or let you know what's up if she doesn't feel attracted to you as she will not really want you being that close to her in which case it's time to find the next target.

5. "Hello" usually works. But you can start it with prettymuch anything. Don't be preoccupied with what you're going to say. The conversation will come if you just relax and enjoy yourself. Treat a girl like one of your guy friends when you're talking to her.
 
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