"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Got Rejected... by a Men's Support Group

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Evil thrives when good men do nothing. Cynicism thrives when principle is mistaken for ego.
Brings us back around to https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...ntion-about-theory.284740/page-4#post-3171594

As recently as '03, the editors of Maxim and Jennifer Baumgarten(one so-called 3rd Wave Feminism's rock stars)collaborated on an article titled "How To Cure A Feminist", and that very mindset("Biases and prejudices towards/ignorance about men can be drastically reduced... No, it's not essy and requires effort and guile on our part, nonetheless this is achievable")was the one that reigned supreme

There's no rational justification for us to NOT resuscitate that mindset today
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Divorced w 3

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Why even go? They’ve been pretty clear about the direction the group is heading.
 

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Why even go? They’ve been pretty clear about the direction the group is heading.
I'm still getting something out of the group. Once that ends, then it'll be pointless.

There's also a separate group that's run by another member which sounds interesting as well. It focuses on self-betterment, business development, and living the best life possible. The guy running it talks a lot, but he's dropped a few things in the Men's group which indicate he may be more red-pill than anyone else. I have yet to attend one of their meetings.
 

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I'm still getting something out of the group. Once that ends, then it'll be pointless.

There's also a separate group that's run by another member which sounds interesting as well. It focuses on self-betterment, business development, and living the best life possible. The guy running it talks a lot, but he's dropped a few things in the Men's group which indicate he may be more red-pill than anyone else. I have yet to attend one of their meetings.
Thinking more about this, it’s also good not to just be in here which can be an echo chamber. The guys you’re speaking with may have some insight into operating with a little more finesse and a little less friction. I certainly am not saying throw your point of view out the window but maybe the right answer is somewhere in the middle. Glad it’s working out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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