Got rejected and it feel`s great!

[Baddy Love]

This morning i got up early and went running, and at the track i saw this HB9 running with a female friend.

At first i tried not to notice her because i was busy, and then, when i`v finished with my program i decided to approach her. She was still running so i had to stop her and introduced my self with a ****y smile, she told me her name and (this is were i made the mistake, as far as i`m concerned) i told her that i didn`t want to interfere with her program so i`ll be short and just asked her for her number.

Then she told me that she was just changing her home number, at which i just laughed. Then i asked her about her cell phone, and she replayed the same.

I stoped for a moment, looked her in the eyes and told her(all with a smile on the face) : yeah, yeah, and u have a boyfriend who`s almost as big as Shaq, right?LOL. Please, is that the best u got?!? I expected smth a bit more creative. ( she was all smiles after that.)

I asked her again, and she said NO. And i was like, ok, see ya tommorow, turned around and leaved.

Man, i got rejected and it still felt great, i mean - u miss 100% of the shots u don`t take.

Anyways, i`m opend to sugestions.

 

[jonny football hero]

Yeah, that was your mistake. But as they say "live and learn"

 

[DJBen]

ahhh, never cut it short. get some connection going between you two, if it was a slow paced jog maybe you could have jogged beside her and kept the convo going. Then when you both stop for a drink or something, or when its the end, when you're about to close get the number.

I learnt the cutting it short thing the hard way. A friend told me this girl liked me, so I rushed right in, went a bit suave, and cut it short. oh how I still regret that

 

[JSH]

dont interrupt her, shell think your rude, and you played it cool, chat to her next time you see her, but finish your program first.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Tight, man, makes me wanna go get rejected, lol. I say interrupt her, cuz u never know when another opportunity might arise. At least you took a chance, right? Don't let it get you down, follow up with some more approaches to build up your skills and confidence!

 

[undesputable]

Originally posted by DJBen
ahhh, never cut it short. get some connection going between you two, if it was a slow paced jog maybe you could have jogged beside her and kept the convo going. Then when you both stop for a drink or something, or when its the end, when you're about to close get the number.

im not saying youre doing wrong...what ever works for you works.....but sometimes if you come up with an interesting approach, and then shortly after just go back to what you were doing....sometimes theyre the ones come after you...but whatever works

 

[Supero Masculus]

Awsome, your the kinda guy built for success. Sadly enough, your ahead of most of the guys on this forum becuase you actually DID something instead of WANTING to do something. Congrats for taking control of your life!

 

[Porky]

Did you really say LOL?

 

[Jerky Boi]

I thought you did a great job. No matter how it turned out, you actually tried. Getting rejected is a big part of life. Not only with women, but with life in general. People get rejected everyday. Someday, we'll all get to a point where it wont bother us anymore and I'm sure there are some of us that are like that right now.


The only thing I would have done different was make the convo a little longer and maybe just jogged next to her and after a while, tell her you had to leave and close with the number. But, other than that I thought you did a nice job, regardless if you got rejected or not.

 

[Baddy Love]

Originally posted by Porky
Did you really say LOL?

Don`t know Porky, what do u think!?